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The Nature of Reality and Meaning
All situations and circumstances within your physical experience, your day-to-day reality, are basically neutral props in relation to each other with no inherent meaning within them other than the meaning that you give them. Everything being blank, empty, neutral allows you by giving the appropriate meaning to extract from that circumstance the effect that you desire. As we have indicated, positive meaning in, positive effect out; negative meaning in, negative effect out. Simple physics, simple mechanics.
Now, let us take this understanding a little bit further. We have discussed the idea that what you experience to be your physical reality in a sense is a combination of vibratory frequencies. This combination of vibratory frequencies represents all the probable or potential realities there can possibly be. They all exist right now, right here, all at once.
They form what can be called the background reality, so to speak. Not that there is any one real reality any more real than any other. Not that there’s one truth against which to measure other realities for their validity or truth. But the background reality is the composite of all realities, all truths in what you may call a holographic fashion—overlaid, intertwined, interwoven. In a sense, laying in wait for a specific stimulus to bring to the surface of that general background any particular reality that you may choose to call a dimension of experience or a universal realm.
how you call those particular vibratory frequencies to the surface and allow yourself to experience that particular reality is through your beliefs, through your attitudes, through the vibration you create yourself to be—through for all practical intents and purposes the meaning you choose to give to the idea of a fundamentally homogeneous background. Through the meaning you create, do you then actually create the physical reality you experience.
So it is not so much the experience that gives rise to meaning; it is meaning that gives rise to the experience. When you project yourself into physiological reality and determine as a non-physical consciousness that you will create certain types of experiences, that is the meaning you are giving to that particular life.
You are creating that particular aspect for yourself as a non-physical entity to experience as a limited physically focused entity.
It is that meaning, that overall desire, that then vibrates at a certain frequency and then calls out of the background vibration through a sympathetic synchronization all the circumstances necessary that represent the meaning you have injected into the general life theme or structure that you are about to live as a physical being.
All circumstances are neutral.
The meaning you choose to believe, the meaning you choose to create in life about your life, is what generates the particular types of circumstances you experience to reinforce and reflect and represent the meanings you are creating.
Giving meaning is the actual act of creation itself. To give meaning to something is to create it into existence in your particular experiential realm. Nothing has built-in meaning. There are no inherent meanings in anything. All vibratory realities are simply a neutral set of circumstances in relation to one another, to some degree representational of a type of crystal lattice work that represents the overall holographic experience of all reality, of all creation.
But the meaning that you generate within your attitude, the idea that you create within the being that you are, is what generates the type of frequency that then pulls out of the homogeneous background all the experiences that then represent the meaning of your life.
Many of you, as you have discussed with us, go through life searching for the meaning of your life. But you see, your life is created simply by the meaning you give to it. So when you are searching for the meaning in that sense, you are chasing your own tail in many ways. The idea is to recognize, as we have discussed, that you have the power of conscious commandment—the ability to make decisions consciously that you know are decisions that represent the life you prefer to live.
And then when you give your life that meaning, that is the style of life you experience. For the vibration that you are will pull out of that background all the circumstances, literally all the situations, literally all the relationships, literally all the objects that represent the meaning, the vibrational resonance, the harmonic you have given to your life.
You have given to the circumstances that you have generated through the initial meaning that you had which created the spontaneous creation of your life to begin with as a physical being, as a physical entity. So simply allow yourselves to know you are the definers ultimately of the life you experience. And as you define it, as you give it meaning, your life takes on only—and can only take on—the colorations and the characteristics and the flavors and the atmospheres of the meaning you decide your life will have.
And that is what you will see reflected in the holographic background, the matrix of all universal probable reality.
The idea we have also discussed is that everything is synchronous—synchronicity. Everything is interconnected with everything else. This is a part of the holographic weave. Every single portion of the whole contains the total information of the whole. Every single area is representative of all creation.
Everything is all here, all now. So whatever vibratory frequency you are on determines what aspects, what faces, what facets of the total reality that is right here that you will see and experience as your life.
So the way to generate most easily the particular vibratory frequency of the life you prefer is to give your life the meaning you prefer to give it and to cease to assume that the situations that occur in your life intrinsically come with a meaning that you may not like. There is no reason to play victim in this. There is no reason to assume that you are assigned a meaning in life and that you have to stick with that idea, that you have to live that out—even if it is a struggle, even if it is a suffering.
When you decide what meaning your life has in that sense—what your life is to be represented by, what attitude, what actions, what preferences, what knowledge, what applications you decide are pertinent to who you are—you give your life the meaning that it can then take its clue from and pattern itself after.
Looking for the meaning in the events as they occur is, in a sense, after the fact. Give your life the meaning you prefer to give it, and it will conform in all aspects to the meaning you have decided it shall have.
Q&A Session
Dream Interpretation: Dragons and Ancient Knowledge
Participant: I’ve had two dreams: two dragons on either side of a piece of metal. The first dream, my husband and I are looking for a place to live. He drops me off in this neighborhood to check it out and says he’ll be right back. I start looking around for signs—omen signs, not signs. I look up on top of a skyscraper; there is a billboard with an old crow in large letters. Next to it is a huge neon eagle. I walk around to the back of this apartment building and I see at the end of a large banister a clear quartz crystal about 3 feet in diameter and 5 feet tall. And about four feet away is a large rectangular lapis stone about 1 foot square with gold marbling and a strange drawing in black that I somehow know is face—being coded information. Not drawn on but somehow just made to appear there.
Bashar: It is ancient civilization encoded information upon your own world as well.
Participant: Okay. And a small rock beside it with similar markings. Then I went around to the front of the building and saw it wasn’t the kind of neighborhood we wanted to live in. I woke up and went back to sleep, and in the dream a crystal ball with a dragon carved in bas-relief wrapping around it. I’m cautioned not to buy it because it’s machine and not handmade. Then I’m in an apartment and the person there has a crystal ball with dragon that he says is handcarved. When he shows it to me and then leaves the room, it becomes a silver sheet of metal with the dragon’s carved dragon carved on one side and the other side it’s half etched and half drawn. When I wet my finger and smear it across the top, the drawing is erased and then some integrity with regards to the artist comes into play there. That’s the first dream.
Participant: Um, the second dream happened recently when I was on the mountaintop. I programmed myself to have a lucid dream and it actually did happen. In the dream, I found a ring. It was silver, a dragon that wrapped around a finger that it was on. It kind of materialized and dropped onto a carpet. And I recognized it to belong to my stepdaughter even though it hadn’t before. And I gave it to her. In the hallway, I was running away from some danger. I don’t remember what that was. And I felt as though I were running through molasses—I couldn’t get any momentum. And then I said to myself, “I’m dreaming this and I can create this any way I want to.” And at that, I moved effortlessly and created a door. I stepped through out of the danger. On the other side of the door, I was given a work of art sculpted in a blue-black metal, which is two magnificent dragons on either side of a flat rectangular piece of this metal. And I felt a sense of wonder and joy at this. And so that it appeared twice. I’m wondering what it means.
Bashar: Oh, thank you. Always give me the fun part.
Allow us to determine the idea of a very ancient energy, a very ancient knowledge which is usually symbolized by the dragon. And specifically because of the metal, you are also speaking and referring about an ancient technology that you are very familiar with—or let us say were and are becoming familiar with. Again, very ancient old Orion energy within you. And what you are seeing is to some degree a pantheon of a time frame from your very beginnings upon your incarnations of Earth up through certain ages unto the revelations unto yourself of the balance of the polarities of the positive and negative energies, allowing you to know you control your own destiny, that you create your own destiny, and that it is becoming less and less complex, and you are regaining your own power.
In that way, you in that sense are the artist, the designer of your path. And now you are looking back upon your work, the path you have designed to bring you where you now find yourself in the present. You have now stepped through a new gate, a new doorway into a new reality, a new world. So you are reviewing the painting, the path, the sculpture of your life, and allowing yourself to recognize that always, always, always you knew what you were doing—in danger, out of danger. You were always relying upon the ancient wisdom that you began this journey with so very long ago to carry you through to the end of the hallway, which is not exactly where you are now, but you are almost there. You follow me?
Participant: Yes, I do. Does this assist you?
Bashar: It sure does. Thank you very much.
Participant: Thank you very much for reclaiming your own ancient wisdom and recognizing your own inner life.
Body Energy and Vibration
Participant: Sharing. Hello, sir. Bashar: And to you. It’s wonderful to talk to you again. Fine to you. Um, I have a couple questions. The first one is about something that’s started happening to my body. Um, it started first when I was here only seeing talking with you and it’s been happening to me more and more in meditation and now just sitting around. Like when I’m sitting quietly, my body will start to move back and forth. Um, sometimes quickly and sometimes slowly, and then from time to time I’ll get surges of energy.
Bashar: Yes. Yes. These are all typical symptoms of many different things going on with many of you. Now you have your own understanding of this, do you not? Your own intuition.
Participant: Just that it’s some kind of a vibration.
Bashar: Some kind of a vibration. All right. The some kind of a vibration is simply an expansion, an increase in your own awareness, your own energy. You are gathering more and more of yourself together. You are now aware that you are more than you used to think you were. And you are sensing more of your own energy, more of your connection to universal energy, and now are feeling and interpreting these energies through your body in cycles, in rhythm. You are beginning to recognize that everything is energy, everything is frequency, vibrating at a particular frequency. And when you change and expand the idea of yourself, you will change your frequency. You will uplift it. You will accelerate it in different directions. For a while, because it is not used to it, your body may react with physiological responses to this energy. But as soon as you acclimate to the new level on which you are existing, it will smooth out until you assimilate the next level. You following?
Participant: Yes. Yes.
Bashar: So your centerings and your meditations are opening you up to more of your own energy that you can now apply in your life in any way you care to.
Participant: That was my next question. How I could use the energy. That’s how.
Bashar: Okay. What excites you the most in life? That excitement is your indication of how to best apply it. That’s what excitement is for. It lets you know where to apply the energy that you now are aware of. Excitement is the vibration in and of itself that represents the path you chose to be. So whatever excites you the most with integrity, apply your energy in that direction, and you will be serving, fulfilling your purpose, being served by the universe automatically, abundantly, and effortlessly. It all goes hand in hand. It is all one event. Use it as you see fit.
Emotional Swings and Polarity Integration
Participant: All right. What do you wish to do? That changes from moment to moment. Well, so I usually do what excites me in the moment. Thank you very much. Thank you. Um, one problem that I am having—well, I’ve heard a couple of other people ask you about this since March 15th, during the workshop I’ve been experiencing some incredible mood swings. I’m either very unhappy or very happy.
Bashar: Many of you, once you begin to integrate that energy because you are not used to exploring such wide-ranging aspects of your polarities, will begin to do so. You know it is safe, and that’s why you are swinging like a pendulum, getting all that you can out of the exploration of who and what you are. You are going to the very ends, into the very depths of all the different aspects of your persona and personality, so that you will make sure you gather all of yourself together and will not leave yourself hanging at some remote destination on either side of your emotional being.
As soon as you begin to apply and center and acclimate and accelerate a little bit further, the giant swings will, instead of going this way, begin to accelerate. And as they accelerate, it will propel you forward in a more linear direction. You follow me?
Participant: Yes. I thought it would have started to do that by now, though.
Bashar: It is. It is. Again, simply recognize that if you are sitting around watching for it, waiting for it to happen, then you may have a much longer period of observation. The more you do with it, the faster it will acclimate and balance and center within you.
Family Relationships and Unconditional Love
Participant: Thank you. Oh, thank you very much. One more quick question. Um, time’s up.
Bashar: Can I have a little more time? Yeah. Thank you. Um, I’m wondering if there’s anything you can tell me that will help me with the disharmony I’m experiencing with my brother.
Bashar: Disharmony? Yes. What are you learning about yourself in this interaction?
Participant: That I don’t want to be the way he is.
Bashar: All right. Are you?
Participant: No.
Bashar: All right. Is there some way that you can be of service to this individual?
Participant: Well, um, I’m not sure. I try. Well, no. I am myself. I express my integrity with him.
Bashar: And your unconditional love. Absolutely. Unconditional.
Participant: Well, it’s getting there. It’s getting there.
Bashar: All right. You must worry about the disharmony in expressing unconditional love. You can allow yourself to recognize that the individual may be working through certain ideas and lovingly trusting that you can be used as a reflection, as a mirror, to allow that individual to see what they need to see, to integrate within themselves the things they need to integrate. Can you allow yourself to be this for him?
Participant: Well, um, I haven’t yet. When his energy is disruptive to me, I allow him to knock me off center when we interact and it’s very disturbing.
Bashar: Why do you allow that?
Participant: I guess I’m just now learning that I don’t have to.
Bashar: Oh, very good. Now, you see the balancing act coming full circle. You have someone who is allowing you to learn what it is like to be centered and balanced so that you cannot in a very short time find yourself anymore falling off from one side to another. If you carry with you the image that you are walking a tight rope, it is very easy to fall off on either side and explore the wide range of polarities you say you have been exploring. When you allow yourself to know that the rope is very wide, you cannot fall off. You will always be on center. You follow me?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: This individual to some degree represents some of your ingrained beliefs that the balance point between the polarities you are experiencing is a very narrow and knife-edge-like phenomenon, when in fact it can be a very wide plane. You follow me? Does that assist you?
Participant: Yes, it does.
Bashar: Once you know you are stable as who you are, then no one, no matter how you allow them to influence you or move you or interact with them, will ever find it possible to push you anywhere near the edge of the center. For you, there is no edge. There is only the center.
Participant: Wow, that’s wonderful.
Bashar: And that will also allow the polarities you are exploring to balance and blend within you. Is there anything else I can do to help him?
Participant: Only be yourself. Trust your instincts and remember you can force nothing on anyone.
Bashar: Thank you very much. Have a dream conversation with the individual as you may have already attempted to do. You have had a few. Allow yourself to know that there can be much soothing and understanding and awakening and awareness in the dream conversations that will allow you to in your terms awaken into your physical reality with a new insight, a refreshed understanding of how to approach instinctively that individual rather than approach them analytically. You follow me?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: An instinctive natural approach, one such as what you call your tree that bends in the wind, may be of best benefit for that individual.
Contact Experiences and Service
Participant: Thank you very much. Pleasantry. Good evening. Sharing. Hello Bashar. And to you. God bless you. And to you. Thank you very much. Um, I’ve had many different experiences with space people and I was wondering what vibrations you may be picking up that may aid me in better understanding of some of the different things that I’ve gone through in my life that could aid me more in the present.
Bashar: All right. You can assist us in tuning into that vibration by sharing with us the ideas about how you wish to use what connections you are aware of in terms of your daily life. How do you wish to use the vibrations, use the energy? How are you of service?
Participant: Um, I’m not quite sure what you mean by that last statement.
Bashar: What are you doing with the information? What are you doing with your knowledge? How do you apply it in your physical reality that you have the connections you know you have?
Participant: Well, uh, I’m basically on a fruit diet. I’m very much into that in prayers and also taking animus and passing myself out.
Bashar: All right. Those in your terms of centering within yourself. All well and good. How are you applying it outwardly?
Participant: Uh, I share it with people but on a limited basis—the people that will accept it.
Bashar: All right. Of course. Always you will only attract the individuals who will be able to utilize some of that information. Is there some other thing you wish to do with this energy or information that you feel at this time you are not doing?
Participant: Okay. Well, what I would like to do is get in touch with more contactees because I feel it’s very important.
Bashar: A very good—I also felt what is stopping you?
Participant: Um, getting in touch. I don’t know.
Bashar: All right. Are you going to get in touch?
Participant: I’m trying. I’m working in the sense that I give some support in helping other people in different organizations. I help pass out flyers and UFOs. I come here—I help ways to get connected with other people. That’s why I’m here to get connected with people.
Bashar: All right. Are you enjoying this?
Participant: Uh, yes I am. It’s a little different. Uh, I’ve also had some—I feel very heavy connections for salt and technologies that I have that flow through my mind.
Bashar: All right. But I don’t have the schooling background.
Participant: But you can attract the individuals that do.
Bashar: I see. Yes, you’re right. And I felt that way too. Yeah. Uh, but those people have not come into my space yet.
Participant: Perhaps you simply have not announced it enough yet. I see. What would you suggest?
Bashar: Well, you have already done some of that right now. Okay. And there perhaps are individuals this evening of your time who can, if not make direct connections with you, refer you to individuals who may be more interested. That is one way. The idea is to simply make yourself obvious in that sense as to who and what you’re all about, so that you veritably radiate the idea that excites you the most, and that will automatically attract the individuals necessary.
Do you think that that is something difficult to do—to attract the individuals that have the things you lack so that you can supply to them the things they lack?
Participant: No. But it hasn’t happened.
Bashar: All right. How have you seen it happening? Or have you seen it as difficult? In other words, when you consider the idea that you wish to attract other individuals, do you create scenarios in your mind that make it seem like an obstacle to do so, or do you see yourself interacting very easily?
Participant: I reached out and other people that were contacts reached me. Yeah. And we—I reached another terminal, but the terminal in the end just absorbed information and then didn’t—it said I was useless.
Bashar: Useless. Yes. Useless. No use at all. Yes.
Participant: But in a sense that they just wanted information—that was it.
Bashar: Okay. What’s so useless about that? I don’t find anything useless at all about that. Okay, I can see what they’re doing. All right, but you are implying that you wish to attract individuals of a specific nature to aid and assist you in the manifestation of certain ideas yet. Right. All right. Can you picture this happening?
Participant: Yes. Easily. Uh, yes.
Bashar: Does it excite you to see that happening?
Participant: Oh, yes it does.
Bashar: All right. Yes. I can get real stirred up about things, but then after I’m all stirred up, I don’t continue on—
Participant: Why not?
Bashar: Uh, something else comes up. I think something else, I guess. I don’t really know.
Participant: All right. All right. All right. But I could get excited about something and I can start out with it. Yeah. And then I just—it just doesn’t manifest continue. It just doesn’t continue on. Doesn’t come into a reality or something.
Bashar: All right. Allow yourself to recognize one of the things we have discussed with many of you is that you have upon your world an assumption. This basic assumption that you have been taught is that if it doesn’t manifest in the way you think it should, you think the process has stopped. Rather than assuming that the next thing that excites you is a part of the ongoing process, you assume that if it changes, that means it has stopped. It hasn’t. It is simply that everything will always transform into what is most representative of the path of least resistance. And you may not always have conscious analytical awareness of what that might be.
So if you know you have initiated a certain vibratory energy, a certain excitement, and you see it progressing in a certain way and then all of a sudden it changes, why give it the meaning that it has stopped? Why not give it the meaning that it is still going but in another mode?—in the mode perhaps necessary to attract you to the individuals you originally wanted to attract in the first place but who were not likely to be attracted by the original way you were doing it. You follow me?
Participant: Yes, I do.
Bashar: Allow yourself to begin to look at life as a continuing series of the energy you have initiated but changing its form chameleon-like over and over and over again to make all the connections to the different vibrations you say you want to connect into. It has to transform into a different frequency in order to be attractive to different individuals who think differently than you. You follow me?
Participant: Yes, I do. Is this assisting you so far?
Bashar: Yes, it is.
Participant: All right. It is a completely different viewpoint, a completely different outlook, and one that can have a profound difference upon the way you allow yourself to know that your life is manifesting what you want. But it is only the assumption that it stops, only the assumption that it is interrupted, that creates the interruption you experience.
Allow yourself to know that if you truly trust that what you are doing is representative of who you are and who you chose to be in this life, then no matter how it changes, no matter in what way the excitement continues, the fact that the excitement continues is the sign that the whole idea is still continuing. Not necessarily in a way that you have been taught to think it must, but in the way that it needs to to represent the path of least resistance to get you where you are going. Because you cannot have a conscious analytical awareness of all the probable paths it could take to get you where you want to go. So don’t even try.
Let yourself trust that how it does take its course—even if it appears to have nothing at all to do with the course it started out on—if the excitement is still there, it is the excitement that lets you know water is still in the river no matter how many tributaries it may take to get to the ocean. You follow me?
Participant: Yes, I do.
Bashar: Excitement still is representation of the flow. So you still know the river is flowing. Follow it. Go down the channel it leads you on. That represents the quickest path to the sea. If you think, “Oh, no, no, I can’t go this way—that is not how I was going before,” but you still sense that the excitement is there, that the water is flowing, you are the one imposing the dam in the river. Allow yourself to go with it. No matter how it meanders, the way it meanders is representative of the path you chose to be. And the meandering is necessary in order to arrive at your destination in the quickest possible way.
Fruit Diet and Time
Participant: Uh, I’d just like to ask you—I’m very much into this fruit diet. Do you sense that maybe I’ll be coming to a peak or a plateau on it that will give me more free time?
Bashar: Allow yourself to trust your body consciousness. Allow yourself to ingest things that your body may say it needs for stabilization from time to time. You do not have to force yourself into a spiritual vibration. Allow yourself to know that you will balance out and equal out, and you will simply know and have the appropriate instinct as to what feels correct to ingest within your body.
Allow yourself also to understand that when you allow yourself to know you are following the path at any given moment that you’ve created for yourself, you will then be more strongly in touch with all the different levels of your consciousness. And that will allow you to know you do not need as much unconscious time in which to connect to those levels because you are doing it consciously. That means you will probably sleep less. That means you will probably experience the idea of having more time, but recognize also at the same time that you have all the time you need. Everything is in perfect timing. You do not have to rush things along. You are an eternal being. You are right in step with the transformation. What’s your hurry?
Participant: Can you tell me the people that I had met aboard the spaceship, where they come from, what planet?
Bashar: Some of the energy is Pleiadian, and some of the other energy is connected to the various association worlds—some of which your world knows and some of which it doesn’t. For now, allow us rather than labeling to simply allow you to feel the energy rather than differentiate between civilizations that consider themselves at one with all the other civilizations that they interact with. For now, consider it an association energy—the energy of the association of all worlds that are interacting with yours. You have met many representatives in that way in your dream state. But let it all be one for now.
Participant: Thank you very much, Bashar.
Bashar: Well, thank you very much. God bless you. Live life.
Dream Changes and Holographic Vision
Participant: Hello, Bashar. And to you. Um, a lot of exciting changes.
Bashar: Let the other individuals hear your excitement.
Participant: Um, well, one of the main changes after the workshop—I shared some very long dreams with you. Okay. And this experience of my dreams has changed completely. They’re all like little flashes. All right. And little flashes of dreams. Yeah. And I—it’s hard to put them all together.
Bashar: Why must you?
Participant: I guess that’s not necessary.
Bashar: What do these flashes represent to you the moment that they happen?
Participant: Insights. Yes. Connections. Flash matrix.
Bashar: You are bridging. You are allowing yourself to come to a collective revelation. You are aligning your entire synaptic structure within your brain. True insight. Holographic vision. These things propel you, allow you to use the energy in whatever way you wish. You do not have to necessarily allow there to be a linear bridge or a link between them. They are multi-sensory, multi-dimensional. There does not necessarily have to be a linear connection apparent in your physical world.
Participant: True. Um, there’s a lot of daydreaming and sometimes I remember some of these, but then I only remember them for a few minutes and then they’re gone again.
Bashar: Yes. Again the idea is that as you blend your dream reality and your physical reality—as you live the dream—then there is not so much separation between the physical awake state and the dream state, the non-physical state, and so there is less to remember. Typical memory, quote unquote, as your planet is used to thinking of it, being a relationship from one state to another state that you are no longer in. So if you allow yourself to recognize that memory is creation in the moment and that you are living that dream, then it’s not something to remember because you are still in it. You are living it. It is not a flashback. It is a flash now.
Participant: Is there a purpose in the fact that these are no longer stories? These are highly compressed representations of the information or the definition that you are at the moment you have the spark.
Bashar: It allows you to know that at that moment you are simply aligned and you are, quote unquote, kicking yourself or igniting yourself, if you will, to transcend or step up to another level of operation. You follow me?
Participant: Um, I probably have to listen to the tape.
Bashar: Perhaps a recognition that you do not need to analyze it. But again, the idea is to live it, live it, live it. In the living of all you experience, all the idea, all the understanding and all of the meaning will come out in the actions that you perform instantly. You will understand it by doing it, by moving with the spontaneous feeling.
Let me give this analogy as we shared with some individuals in your society earlier this day of your time. You recognize there are circumstances in your reality from time to time where you see individuals because of the circumstances around them simply leap into spontaneous action and do something, and after it’s done they say, “I didn’t know I could do that. I just all of a sudden knew there was nothing else to do. So I did it and there it is.” Every moment of your life can be lived that way. Really every single moment.
So those flashes are for you a representation of the beginning of living your life that way—every single moment. One continuous flash of revelation and action. Poetry in motion.
So it is not so much that it will allow itself to resolve into a linear story. It is in and of itself the energy of your living, the energy of your action. And anything you need to know to understand will come out in the doing of what the energy allows you to feel you are all about.
Participant: Yeah. I think one particular insight today had that message in a way. I saw quickly a face of Aristotle looking very young. All right. And cheerful. Okay. But he had his right eye removed. I was wondering—somehow I knew—I felt I knew what it meant, and then I start to analyze it and I lost it. And I guess I was doing exactly what I’m not.
Bashar: The removal of the right eye of the symbol you call Aristotle represents now that as you look through the left eye you are using the right brain more—creativity, less analysis. Right. That’s what I felt it meant, to then trust it. Yeah. You know what you are doing and you understand the meaning that you give to these symbols and you understand why they generate in your life. Go with it.
Channeling and Higher Self
Participant: Yeah, that I’m glad you confirmed that. Um, and I have one more question. Um, I was sort of excited. Uh oh, sort of excited. All right. Excited. I was excited about the idea of taking a class in channeling.
Bashar: All right. You go right ahead. Have a good night.
Participant: No, but that’s not—I feel like going right ahead, but could you share a little bit about the kind of entity I would be channeling?
Bashar: Nope. Except to say recognize the whole point is to channel you, not someone else—higher self. If you wish to call it that. Yes. But the idea is to act like the higher self in physical terms. And that means you will be channeling the higher self. Was there an agreement about a particular comments? No comments. We are not going to lay down a plan for you.
Participant: Yeah, I understand there’s no right or wrong in it.
Bashar: Move with the flow. Move with the flow. Move with the flow.
Participant: Got the message. Thank you very much. Thank you, Bashar. Have a wonderful time.
Bashar: I believe you will.
Night Sweats and Releasing Toxins
Participant: Sherry, how you doing? Bashar: Perfect. And you? Very well, thank you. Well, thank you. Thank you. Well, I was going to ask you tonight about a painful back I’ve been having. All right. But the last week I’ve been thinking a lot about conscious choice while you went over tonight. So, I think that kind of answers things. I’ve been working with a lot and it feels a lot better. All right. But anyway, what I do want to ask you about is that I’ve been having a lot of night sweats.
Bashar: And I really haven’t been able to come up with anything. Are you releasing?
Participant: Probably a lot of things such as—um, boy, where do you want to start?
Bashar: Anywhere you wish. Every place is the beginning.
Participant: Um, been releasing toxins. Yeah.
Bashar: All right. Toxins. But why they build been building up so much? If that’s one of the things—
There are many ideas within your physiological system that have been inherently, quote unquote, locked into your body for many years. When you arrive at certain levels, many things that have been in your body for years will come out. It is not necessarily that they are there because of things you have been doing recently.
Participant: I mean, it’s been like the last three years this has been happening.
Bashar: Yes. And some of the things you are releasing in those sweats have been in your body for 10 years. Some of them have been there since birth. So, it’s a very positive thing.
Participant: I think so. Good. Well, I think so, too. Oh, thank you. Then we agree. But just go with it. Or, I mean, is there anything I can do to help resolve it?
Bashar: Well, what does your understanding of it allow you to create in your mind about the purposes for it?
Participant: Just that there’s some things I need to clear out.
Bashar: All right. Does it excite you that you are clearing out?
Participant: It does now. Yeah. Now.
Bashar: All right. Then the added variable of your excitement will change the experience.
Participant: That’s good. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. Thanks much.
Bashar: Allow yourself if you wish to visualize and image the energy pouring through all your pores. Imagine that you are breathing with your entire body with all the energy that you are. See the cycle of blue electromagnetic fluid going through your body and removing all the ideas of impurities and allowing them to dissolve outside you. Taking in refreshing electric energy and then removing the impurities and allow it to accelerate but allow yourself to do it comfortably.
Participant: All right. So in essence everything really starts with conscious choice.
Bashar: Right. Sometimes in your world it can start with unconscious choice. Well, yes. Resolving from the unconscious. Yes. But then once it becomes conscious, you no longer have an excuse.
Participant: Oh, well, yes. I realize I am doing that out of an unconscious habit.
Bashar: Now that you know you’re doing it out of an unconscious habit, it’s no longer unconscious, is it? It’s true. So the idea is to know that when you have recognized that you are in control, direct it as you prefer to. I will give it the meaning as we have discussed that you prefer to, and then you will see a change to fit the new meaning.
Participant: Sounds good. Thank you. I’ll use it.
Transformation and Lost Persona
Participant: Thank you very much. Well, thank you very much. I wanted to tell you how much we all appreciate your sharing with us. I’ve gained a great deal from listening to you.
Bashar: Well, allow me to convey how much we all appreciate your sharing with us.
Participant: Thank you. Um, recently I had listened to some communications from friend in reference to the transitions between third and fourth density. And I had a question. Um, the past two years—beginning about two years ago—I have seen the entire focus of my personality, even my physical body, everything has changed to such a point where there is no longer the person that I was two years ago. Seems to be no longer present, correct? I’m very curious as to what has happened to that personality. Has it moved into a parallel, in a sense, reality? And an aspect of myself has moved on into fourth and I have become—I’m not—I’m just curious looking at it in any number of ways, each of which is a mathematical arbitrary point of view. Neither of them are any less correct than any other way to look at it.
Bashar: It is all real. You can look at it that way. You can say that the old persona has dissolved back into the homogeneous background matrix and in a sense lies in potentia rather than in realization. There are many ways to look at it, again each of which is correct. Because the whole idea of how you can do that to begin with means that you already exist in every single point of view there is to exist within. That you are all points of view, and where you decide and when you decide to look from and how you decide to look will determine the idea of the persona that you are. What happens to the persona you no longer are is a matter of how you choose to define it to feel comfortable with the idea. All of them are true. All the definitions are correct since you have created the persona out of your imagination to begin with. Okay. Does that help?
Participant: Yes, it does. Thank you very much.
Bashar: Oh, thank you very much. And yes, the idea of parallel existence is also correct.
Arthritis and Healing
Participant: Sharon, hi Bashar. Hi. This is my first time up here, so I’m really excited to talk with you.
Bashar: This is my first time, too. Being that I am never the same persona the next moment of time either, just like you.
Participant: Thanks. Um, I wanted to talk about myself. Oh, all right. Go right ahead. I have rheumatoid arthritis. All right. And I’ve had it since 1982, 1983. All right. And proud of that. Yeah. I’m proud of that. No, not really. But when I first had it, I found the idea that I create my own reality. I mean, I found the realization that I had created an illness for myself to be a real burden. All right. Now, I’m coming to understand that this is a real opportunity for transformation for me. And I have no desire to spend the rest of my life in pain and illness. So I wanted to discuss this with you from two perspectives. One, from a real mundane physical perspective. I wanted to talk to you about that. And then two, from the transformational aspect of it.
Bashar: All right. Both are exciting. Okay. From the physical point of view, what I’m doing—I’m seeing a regular AMA doctor. I’m on some heavy duty medications and they do have some potential serious side effects. This concerns me. All right. Um, I’m wondering if there’s anything that you can tell me that I could be doing in addition to this medical treatment that I’m under on a day-to-day basis to help me with the pain and energy problems and so forth.
Bashar: All right, let’s ask what we have asked other individuals. First and foremost, are you doing in your life what excites you the most?
Participant: Um, I don’t know if I can answer that. Um, why not?
Bashar: Well, I’m doing lots of different things. What’s exciting me right now is this. Yeah. This is really exciting me. Why? Um, because in my heart it just means so much to me. Why? Um, geez, I haven’t thought about that and I’m really not sure. Go right ahead. I’ll wait. Think about it. Okay. Um, the possibilities—the realization that I create my own reality, that we all create this together, that we’re all one. Um, very freeing idea. Yes. It’s fantastic to me. Very flexible. Yes. Yes. Not rigid. Yes. Right. However, I’ve created a lot of rigidity. Rigidity as you know—that was up to this point anyway.
Bashar: All right. Which point is that?
Participant: Oh, this one. Up to this moment. Which one? Oh, this one. This one, too. And that one. And the next. And the next. And this one. This one. This one. All right. All right. Now, may I ask you a question? Okay.
Bashar: At which point do you imagine—just play along—at which point do you imagine you will no longer be creating the idea of the arthritis? When do you picture you—in your terms—will no longer be the being who contains that idea? Ten years from now?
Participant: Well, unfortunately, I do think of that as a future thing. But although when I see myself—when I see myself, I’m still this age and all that. Okay. So, I’m not an old—
Bashar: Let’s play along for a moment. Okay. Ten years. Is it gone in ten years?
Participant: God, I hope not.
Bashar: Is it gone in ten years? Oh, can you see yourself in ten years? You know beyond a shadow of a doubt that in ten years you will not have this. Is that true?
Participant: Yes, I believe that.
Bashar: Five years?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: Four?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: One?
Participant: All right. Here comes the hesitation.
Bashar: Now, this is a very appropriate tool—what we call examining your threshold of believability. This lets you know what kind of patterns you are setting up at this particular moment, and in all reality can give you a very good idea of how long you will create it to take to alleviate that particular situation. In the very next moment, that can change. We are not saying that just because in one moment you say, “Well, I’m not sure about a year,” that in the very next moment you can say, “Well, yes—six months, no problem.” The idea, however, puts you squarely in touch with what your threshold of believability is. For when the hesitation starts to go—ten years, no problem; five years, absolutely; a year—then you begin to come right up against what you truly believe is possible for you. And that lets you know right at that moment how long it will likely take if you change nothing from that moment.
However, fortunately for you, the realization in and of itself makes a change in the energy and follow it. Wonderful. Yeah. So in ten years, absolutely no problem, correct? Right. Five years, right. One year, right. All right. Six months? Give me tomorrow. That’s up to you. Okay. That’s up to you. Again, this demands absolute honesty with yourself. Absolute honesty. All right. Well and good. I can say well tomorrow or will it be gone? You can say absolutely. But if you don’t really believe it, it will not absolutely be gone.
Participant: What I’m wondering about is—you know, consciously of course I desire to be well. And what I’m wondering is if there isn’t some unconscious stuff that I’m not aware of.
Bashar: All right. Yes. In a sense, however, once again, if you have an idea within you that there is some unconscious stuff that you are not aware about that may be allowing you to have the experience you are having, then you are beginning to be consciously aware of its existence and that means it is no longer unconscious. You do not necessarily have to absolutely always know all the specific details about what may be unconsciously creating your reality to allow yourself to begin to replace it with a vision of a reality you prefer. Okay, follow. Yes, you can simply allow it to automatically be replaced by creating the reality you prefer. And this is what we are assisting you to get in touch with for now.
By examining your threshold of believability, you now are beginning to gain some concrete and conscious awareness of what you really believe is truly possible for you and within what kind of time frame it is possible. So that you, in creating the vision of yourself as a healthy whole individual, will know that that vision is an honest one, absolutely representative of the beliefs you really have, and that you are not just playing a game with yourself by saying, “Yes, I see myself tomorrow being healthy, but I don’t believe it.” Right. Yeah, but yes, I see myself in five years absolutely being healthy and yes, I believe that.
So if you are going to create a vision of yourself in perfect health, create it to be the vision of the five-years-hence you that you absolutely believe beyond a shadow of a doubt is a healthy you. And once you get in touch with that, just having done that will accelerate that you towards you from the future. So that bit by bit, at a more accelerated pace, you now can become that you and you will not have to wait five years. Okay. You follow me?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: Also one other trick we have talked about before in terms of manipulating the idea of time. Manipulating the idea of the past and to create the past and the future from the present—not the other way around—is to create within you an energy that represents the following idea. Each and any of you can use this if it appeals to you. If you have in your threshold of believability now an idea, “Well yes, I believe this has to take, oh, say six months for it to alleviate itself,” then send the energy six months ago so that you will have had the intervening six months and it can change overnight since you will have taken the necessary six months you believe is necessary. You follow me?
Participant: Yeah.
Bashar: So you would do that through a visualization of absolutely past. Absolutely. Time is completely flexible, and many times the simple realization that that is so may actually bring about the change, unlock you completely. Are you feeling a little warmth within you now?
Participant: Yes. Yes.
Bashar: Allow yourself to recognize that you are now centering. You are beginning to feel your signature vibration. And the more you center into the idealized blueprint state of who you know yourself to be, the less likely that state will be able to contain a definition of any type of disease. You follow? Yes. So feel that vibration. All right. Get excited about it. Know that you are in control and can be from many different directions all at once. Okay. Time is your play phase.
Participant: So, you’ve really answered my question and it’s in the transformational aspect of it. Okay. What I’m wondering about just in the meantime while I am working with all these ideas—if there’s any day-to-day thing—I heard you recommend a tea for somebody last week or I’m wondering if there’s anything that might just help me in the meantime physically.
Bashar: Do you know of what you may call the form either lodestone or hematite?
Participant: I’m not familiar with it, but I can.
Bashar: Individuals that are present this night in your time can acquaint you with some of this idea. It can in certain doses have a balancing, grounding, strong magnetic effect within you to help align some of the magnetic currents in your bodies which can then alleviate some of what you may call the arthritic buildup.
Participant: Are you talking about actually ingesting?
Bashar: No, no, no, no. Holding exterior and doing a centering meditation—not taking very much time. Also to some degree, copper is very conductive and conducive to alleviating some of the electrical pads that create a vibration you know as arthritis as well. Okay, just little bits—just experiment a little bit with this idea. Do not have to get, as you say, heavy duty. You are the switch anyway. These are only triggers, and for you they can be very strong triggers. Have no expectations. Explore in an open, childlike way. With a childlike flexibility rather than the rigor of what you normally associate with old age. You follow it?
Participant: Yes.
Bashar: Have fun. Thank you, Michelle. Well, thank you very much. And trust your imagination, for in those meditative states, you may come up with something else that you feel so inclined to associate with—be it something you ingest, or be it something you simply surround yourself with, or something that you do. Listen to your imagination.
Fear, Unconditional Love, and Dream Contact
Participant: All right. Okay. Thank you so much. Oh, thank you so very much. Happy dancing. Hi Bashar. And you. I’m really happy to talk with you again. Um, something that I really like is a lot of times when I have a question that I want to ask you, sometimes I’ll just ask you in my mind when I’m not here and the answer comes that comes from you.
Bashar: Oh, okay. Recognize that many of you, as we have allowed and offered, use our vibration to get in touch with that aspect of yourself that operates on a similar frequency. So the answer comes from you and you are using us. Thank you very much. As a lure to find yourself, we are simply a reflection, a lure, a mirror for you. In that way, it is not that it directly comes from us. You tap into the frequency that allows you to operate as if you are us—what you think us to be. You assign us the capability of knowing those things. And so, in forming a connection with that vibration, you grant yourself the ability that you have always had. We thank you. That to us is a gift.
Participant: It’s pretty exciting. Yeah. It’s fun, too. Um, when I came here, I didn’t even know what question—one of the questions that I was going to ask you. All right. And I got the question and then I got the answer right away.
Bashar: Very good. You see, it is not that you need questions to speak with us. The idea is simply equality of understanding.
Participant: Um, what one of them was was when a person finds themself afraid. Yes. What is a really quick way to get out of that and what works for you?
Bashar: Well, the thing that came to me was unconditional love. Yes. Absolutely. Just to feel love in some form. Yeah. So that is the way that works best for you. Your imagination gave you that. You gave that to yourself, and you also extracted it from the universal knowledge of All-That-Is. That is how it works for you. Other individuals may get other answers, and each and every other answer is correct for that individual, and each answer is representative of the vibrational frequency that individual is operating upon. So congratulations for finding the answer that is you.
Dream of Spaceships and Present Moment
Participant: Thank you. Thank you very much. I don’t usually remember my dreams very often, but there’s been a couple times in my life where I had very, very vivid, bright, colorful dreams. All right. And that happened to me about a week ago. And the dream that I had was that—um, what it seemed like was the day that a lot of different spaceships came to the earth and everyone was aware of it. It was like time stood still and all these people were in a big circle. People on the earth were in a big circle and everyone knew that it was real and it just seemed incredibly real to me. I felt like I was there. Yeah. So, I’m just wondering if you can tell me anything more about sensing the unification that can occur between our respective worlds when you do allow time to stand still.
Bashar: That means when you live in the present. Understand it is no accident in your classical terminology that one of what you call your media plays your film refer to as “The Day the Earth Stood Still.” That involves your interaction of your planet with our worlds and has that entitlement. For as you have just perceived, it refers to the idea that when you allow everything to be in the moment, and when you are at perfect peace—standing still—is when the whole universe opens up before you and you don’t have to go anywhere to find it. It’s all right here. And that day is now. That is, quote unquote, coming.
Participant: Well, that goes along with what I was just thinking of. I feel like things that I’ve been wanting to create for a long time are just manifesting so fast.
Bashar: Yes, you are living the dream. And that’s why many times you don’t have to have a conscious recollection of a dream from the sleep state because you are still dreaming right now. You follow me?
Participant: Yeah.
Bashar: As you blend the two realities, there is no longer any separation. Therefore, there is nothing to wake up and remember. You are still living it. You are still sleeping in that sense—not in a negative sense. You are still dreaming and you are awake in the dream. When it becomes one thing, there’s no longer a separation that necessitates the remembrance of a specific separate experience. So many of you will find that you will seem to dream less in the classical way and dream more in the active way by understanding that what you are experiencing right now is a dream. Literally. Literally, you are all waking up instead of sleepwalking and bumping into things. Now you are opening your eyes into the dream you prefer. You follow me?
Choosing Between Many Opportunities
Participant: Mhm. Anything else? Yeah. All right. Uh, the thing that I’m sort of having trouble with—sort of having trouble. Oh, you’re having trouble having trouble with—is that so many great things are happening that I’m having a hard time choosing which ones to do. And there’s things that have seemed really important. Should I choose this one or choose that one?
Bashar: Let it be obvious by all means. And if you recognize that many things are equal choices, then it doesn’t really matter much which one you choose, does it?
Participant: No, but it doesn’t seem that way. It seems hard to—
Bashar: That is only because you are placing the idea that you have to make a decision about it upon the idea. Let it be obvious. Act upon whatever excites you the most that you have the ability to act upon. The things that you don’t have the ability to act upon—by acting upon the things you do, the ability to act upon everything else will come and everything will fit into place. It is only your assumption that there isn’t enough time for everything that makes it all lumped together in a way that makes it seem impossible to choose. Everything fits perfectly. Let it make itself obvious, and then you will not have to make a decision. The decision will have been made by the way it comes to you. You follow me?
Participant: Yes. Thank you. Thank you very much.
Participant: The last thing is that I also this week have had—oh, this has been incredibly synchronistically—I mean I thought it was incredibly before—and one of the things that kept appearing a lot through different people was about myself channeling and being also in the channeling class. Oh wow. And someone said to me that they had some reference to a spirit guide that wanted to speak through me. And so I was wondering about that. Well, then you said to the other person about—I guess what I’m trying to ask is what is the difference between channeling your higher self or a spirit guide and also what where do angels come into all this?
Bashar: Whole blanket. On one level there is no difference at all. On another level there is a differentiation and it can be seen as its own consciousness. It can be seen as consciousness that has been embodied that you have interacted with perhaps in many different lives. This is what the majority of spirit guides can be. Spirit guides can also be consciousness from other planes, other levels of consciousness in many different ways. This is not to say they are not their own consciousness, but on one level we are all the same consciousness. We simply remove the idea of the labeling because in all practical purposes it is rather arbitrary.
Anything you need to know, any name you need to know, any label you need to know, you will know when you need to know it if that assists in the connection. Angels in a sense are a level of consciousness that in your terminology have never experienced physical reality in any dimension whatsoever with all of them. And as such, still you are all angels because there is an aspect of you on every single level including that one. So remember that even though you are interacting many times with what you call a separate spirit guide, much of what you actually experience as the communication itself is your energy because it is the job, if you will, of the spirit guide to lure you into using you.
So the channeling that you see right now before you is not directly my consciousness. It is the consciousness of the physical channel allowing itself to alter to match my vibrational pattern so that a model of my consciousness is created for you. And then there is again yet another removal in that you have to create your version—your model—of what you perceive coming through the channel in order to perceive it at all. So by the time it gets to you, it’s made of your energy. And it is you molding your energy to create a facsimile of what you think is happening through the channel, which is a facsimile of what is happening from me. Follow me?
Participant: Well, are you saying then that you don’t really need a spirit guide if you can know that that’s your own higher self?
Bashar: In a sense, yes, that is correct. The idea is that you will probably intermingle with all other consciousness anyway, and other individuals simply wishing to be of assistance will be of assistance to you. So you’ll probably come across them no matter what. But the idea is to understand that on one level all consciousness is the same thing. And if you simply recognize that, then paradoxically you will be channeling yourself and at the same time it will be easier for you to be in touch with all other levels of consciousness as well.
Participant: Well, when the person said this to me and another person said something about it, I was afraid of channeling and then—oh, I thought all the religious ideas.
Bashar: All right, let me remind you simply right now—nothing can control you against your preference. If you believe that you are the creator of your reality and you know what vibration you are, then simply realize that the vibration you are is the vibration that you will attract. It cannot be any other way. Fear that you may attract something negative is the calling card. You follow me?
Participant: Yeah, that’s—I was afraid I’d do that, too. So, all right. I got it.
Bashar: If you choose to do it at any length of time, allow yourself to realize, “Wait a minute, this is not what I prefer.” And then do what you do prefer. And it will change the whole scenario immediately. Just like switching the dial. “I no longer prefer this program.” Click. You are no longer receiving the old program. Unless, of course, you have a belief that your dial can get stuck in the middle and you receive portions of those. But that has to be your belief. You follow me? Yes. As you feel yourself to be, so you align, and that is the energy you will experience. And if there are fears within you, then explore them with great vitality. And in doing so, they will no longer be fearful and you will transform them into positive vibrations which will attract what you bring.
Participant: I feel that that’s already happening. And I found a book about channeling that as I’m reading it, it just is wonderful.
Bashar: And there you are. You attract all the tools that you require when you require them—automatically, effortlessly—and that is communication from your guides and your higher self.
Participant: And you had said about the labels that at times you can know about your spirit guides. That was what I was going to ask you if I could know that.
Bashar: Yes, you can. Relax, meditate, allow yourself to balance out, be very relaxed, no expectations, and then talk. You’ll get an answer. Whether you validate it or invalidate it or not is up to you. You will get an answer. And if it feels correct, use it as a symbol. It will work. All right. Okay. If it doesn’t work for you, don’t use it. It is as simple as that. You will sense how to align yourself. You have your own truth sense. And your truth sense simply means you know what is representative of the vibration you are.
Daughter’s Relationship with Father
Participant: All right. That’s great. Thank you very much. Happy channel. Thank you. At this timing, you may all channel a short break and we will resume contact momentarily.
Bashar: FA continue. Hello Bashar. And to you. Uh, Bashar, I would appreciate your perspective on the basic agreements that are between my daughters and their father. Um, I would like to be of service to my daughters at this time. They’re going through a lot of pain because of the scenario that has been happening. Their father left when they were one and three and disappeared from their lives except for three times in which—but all three times he has come into their life, gained their trust and love, and then disappeared. And this appears to be the disappearing phase of the third time. They’re now 14 and 16 and going through a very painful reaction to this.
I feel that I understand what I have gained from this situation. But I would like to be able to aid them and be of service and help them to understand their agreements and how best they can deal with this.
Bashar: There are some that connect into many other different lifetimes. One of which is when they were, in your terms, husband and wife and had as the energy of the father a child in a similar reciprocal relationship. And in this way, there was the idea within that relationship of a lack of support, a lack of fundamentals as you understand within the relationships.
But also recognize that what is being done now is a playing out to some degree of a lack of understanding on their part in another life as the husband, as the wife, of the fact that no matter where anyone is, they are connected, and that you can sense that connection regardless of physical proximity. We are not in any way, shape or form condoning a lack of integrity upon any other individual. But the idea in this way is to understand that they are connected in many ways and that physical proximity does not have to be symbolically representative of that connection.
Also there are many connections they need to make between themselves and their own understanding of who they are, their own relationship to creation. And they are being given—not that it has to be done in the way it is being done, but they are still nonetheless by agreement being given an opportunity by the individual you call the father—an opportunity to come to terms with their own self-reliance, their own stability, their own independence in that way, and an understanding that once again they are connected in many different ways to all individuals and that the wanderings of the father can function as remote eyes, remote senses for the children in that way, so that they can through their inner sight, through their imagination, play through, see through the eyes of the father wherever that physical local may be. And this as a lure will stretch—pull them out, pull them out, pull them out in many different ways.
They have agreed to this particular type, this particular format because in other lives they were in many ways too sheltered, too dependent in that sense. And so in this way they are being pulled out in a very polarity demonstration, so they will be forced to stretch and broaden their perspective. Now this does not mean it has to turn into a cynicism, which is possible if they are looking at this through the typical way that your society looks at this idea. They can also understand that in very many ways they are very connected to the father, that they are never really apart, and they can allow this experience to stretch and broaden their perceptions in many different ways, and it does not have to arrive at a particular idea you would call a cynical approach to familial relations. Is any of this making sense so far?
Participant: It’s making sense. It’s making sense, but I don’t know how to help them to understand it.
Bashar: Define name, define age of each.
Participant: Um, Francesca 14, Justine 16.
Bashar: Remind, if you will, though it may seem on the surface to make no sense, in story fashion: Francesca of the wild and exuberant lifestyles that she may allow herself to remember she has lived. The idea of being a center of attention in many ways through many lifetimes and now finding that the attention that is craved being that which abandons. Allow there to be understood that the vitality of the lives that were lived can be reclaimed, but it is within. The fire burns within, and again it can be a creative by Justine. In this way, the coolness of analysis, the scope of comprehension that is capable within this individual can be brought to the surface with the memory of many nights gazing at the stars—many nights putting all the pieces together and contemplating the idea of the relationship of the heavens and the earth.
These individuals are in many ways like the fire and the water, and they balance each other out. And in combining can form, if you will, the metaphor of the steam that will allow them to expand and know that they can float ethereally, that they can cover the whole ground together by combining the understanding of their relationship. And in a sense—not in the same way, of course, as before marrying each other—allowing the bond and the binding that exists between them to blend them together to expand in ethereal ways so that each can support the other, so that they can form the type of relationship between themselves and with themselves to creation that they need to.
In bringing up the idea of the fiery lives and the coolness of perception that they have both had many times, by hearkening stories to them, if you will, perhaps as one way—by bringing them into scenarios and circumstances that may rekindle some of those attitudes in another way. Adventures in life, experiences of meeting new individuals, particularly for Francesca, and the idea of cool and serene panoramas for Justine, can spark and bring within them once again a recollection and a remembrance of who they really are at their core and can allow them the absolute confidence and assuredness of the stability of the foundation of each of the individuals that they represent. You follow along somewhat?
Participant: Uh, I understand what you’re saying and I understand your identification of each of them. I do not yet have a handle on how to really communicate with them. They’re not open in this way—such as my perception sometimes. Sometimes.
Bashar: All right. Why not simply trust your own sensing as to when that is conducive? All right. And at the same time, you can create as a perfume, if you will, as a flower creates an atmosphere around itself—an atmosphere within your relationship with them that would allow them to slide, to desire to slide into a relationship with you wherein they will be willing to allow you to make suggestions that they can then follow. Even though it does not have to be made in a demanding form, it will seem as if they are sliding in directions they prefer to in subtle and unobtrusive ways. Radiate the atmosphere that they simply, like magnets, allow themselves to be attracted to those particular ideas, those particular type of scenarios that will allow them to discover who they really are.
Each of them is at a high time of psychic activity. And this can be stretched in many different ways and exercised, if you will, like a mental muscle. This is what they are about to learn to do. And they may give themselves—Justine perhaps more of an opportunity through analysis or reason; Francesca perhaps more of an opportunity through actual experience in the living of the life—to expand those psychic intuitions. But there will come a time when they will have to exchange roles in many ways and share the attributes of one another so that they will allow themselves to be complete within the relationship and the mirror that they are to each other. You follow me?
Participant: Yes, I do.
Bashar: But radiate the petals of the flowers, spread the petals around, and create there to be a conducive atmosphere, an idealic atmosphere in which each of them will discover the magical area, the magical kingdom within themselves.
Now, one area that this may be extremely conducive is the hard energy of the planet that you call Hawaii. Each of them can find the type of scenarios and the type of areas that they may find most conducive to bringing them out. Thank you. It is up to you.
Participant: Um, one other question about Francesca. She is experiencing sporadic rashes and itches and this kind of thing. I thought it might be related to this situation, but it’s nothing that I definitely know.
Bashar: Yes, to some degree. In a sense, it is some change in the environment will also aid in assistance to some degree, but it is once again a reaction to some degree to the apparency of abandonment and the strong fire that burns within and the desire and need for a particular type of recognition.
Participant: Thank you. Is there anything that I can do for her? She gets very angry at me because I won’t take her off to the doctor. She wants to go to the doctor. They’ll give her something and it’ll make it go away. Is there anything that I can do to help her because she has no openness to any other reason that this is going on?
Bashar: What is your reluctance to follow her belief system?
Participant: It’s that I feel that they will give her something perhaps that will help the itching, but it won’t help. I don’t because I believe that it’s caused by her mind in the situation. No, I don’t.
Bashar: So, then why not trust and follow her belief system for now to allow her to play through what she needs to play through? To the recognition and decisions that she needs to.
Participant: Okay. I understand. Thank you.
Participant: Um, I’ve been asked to ask you what is the earthly equivalent in terms of herbs of cortisone.
Bashar: There are some. One aspect is contained in an idea you call burdock. One in an aspect you call wormwood. Some in what you would call some Peruvian plants—name unknown within the memory of the channel. There are also many herbs that many individuals more familiar with that particular methodology will be able to assist you with within the gathering this evening of your time. But some of them in your terms are very strong reactants also. You will find that anise and fennel seed can also create some of the enzymatic reactions that are desirable. This is a fluctuating thing with the energy of the individual that is referring this idea to themselves. For now, the doors are closed to us. The information therefore by our understanding will come through other lines.
Participant: Thank you. Um, one last question that I feel relates to my daughters and I. About 13 years ago, I had a dream in which I was on a spaceship and there was a large pool with dolphins swimming in it. And I was asked if I wanted to go off with them and go to another planet and live. And I said, “No, I can’t. I must take care of my children.” At that time, I had no understanding of the dolphin significance or anything else really about it. I’m very interested in what energy that was and why I never was given in the dream the vision of the beings who spoke to me. Was that because I was not ready to see that?
Bashar: Were not given the vision of the beings that spoke to you? Well, I don’t believe that it was the dolphins that spoke to me. I did not see the entities that offered to take me with them. And I would like that there are other connections, but what makes you think it wasn’t the dolphins as well? Well, it may have been the dolphins. I’ve had a very strong connection with underwater energy all my life.
Bashar: Some of that is generally representative of Sirius, although there are Arcturian connections as well. Why not simply dive back into that pool in your dream state and see what further communications you can initiate.
Participant: Thank you. That’s very beautiful. I’ll do that.
Bashar: All right. It is up to you. And again, simply remember that you know what you are doing and you recognize the timing. You will understand the labeling and you will understand the origins of some of this as time progresses. Some of it is Sirius energy. Thank you. That is usually the one most often associated with the dolphins and symbols of water. Thank you very much. Thank you.
Bashar: There is a diamond-like doorway through which you can also pass. Use that in your meditation. See a clear blue-white diamond-like shape. Go through it.
Abundance and Money
Participant: Sherry. Hello Bashar. And to you. Um, I’d like to ask you to have a look at my future track please.
Bashar: Which one?
Participant: Um, my professional one. Which one? Um, this one from now in the immediate future. You mean is that not from now till now? Yes.
Bashar: Uh-huh. Uh from now till now. Yeah. All right. Okay. Um, for many years my profession has been in the metaphysical field in healing and counseling and workshops and so on. And a couple of months ago I found myself in the middle of international money market—big deals and big deals. Yes. Big money deals. Yes. And my question is—do you see in my future track that my work will increase in this and actually be a success or is it not going to be a success? Is it not going to happen? Do you see it?
Bashar: Um, I did but I did—but having invested quite a lot of money in it and still it hasn’t come to fruition the way I want it to. Um, this is why I’m asking you the question because I want to stop worrying about whether it’s going to happen or not. Well, go ahead and stop, and then maybe something can happen.
Participant: Okay. I knew you would come out with these funny remarks.
Bashar: Um, recognize that many of the funny remarks you are hearing are simple indications of the fact that you are completely in control of this idea. All it takes is examining the belief systems you have about it that will determine the outcome for you. Okay. Now, why are you excited about that idea?
Participant: Because it’s very exciting to think that I can become a millionaire overnight. All right.
Bashar: Um, is money the only way you will allow yourself to be abundant?
Participant: No. No. No. All right. No. I’m abundant in many ways, but money—the money abundance is certainly one aspect of abundance that I wish.
Bashar: All right. And are you willing to allow it to come to you in ways other than what you might immediately expect that it should come?
Participant: Yes. I’m willing for it to come in any way.
Bashar: Um, are you desperate that it must come? Is this an act of desperation?
Participant: Well, there are moments of desperation.
Bashar: Why?
Participant: Because of frustration. I would say that I spend many hours and many dollars in this and then something falls through and then there’s frustration.
Bashar: All right. Are you always abundant?
Participant: I am.
Bashar: Then why are you frustrated?
Participant: Because the abundance I’m talking about—my being abundant—isn’t necessarily dollar abundance in my bank account.
Bashar: What’s the difference?
Participant: Uh, well, I do see a difference.
Bashar: Why?
Participant: Because if I go into a baker and say, “I wish to give you my abundance in return for this strawberry shortcake,” he’s not going to give it to me.
Bashar: Why not? How will you know that? I know. You know that. I know that. Why do you know that? Why would you rather not know something else? You’re right. You’re right. May I ask you a question? Yes. Are you saying it is absolutely outside of your ability to imagine that you could just simply walk into a bakery and for some reason that you don’t have to know, the baker might consider just giving you something? Are you saying that’s beyond your comprehension?
Participant: No, because many wonderful things like that have happened.
Bashar: Well, then I insist that it must not continue that way. Now I am just exploring many ideas with you. What we are saying in no way, shape or form is an indication of what will or will not happen. That we cannot determine anyway. That is up to you. However, in examining many times the way you look at abundance, it can allow you to determine what it is you are doing and why you are doing it.
If it is in your estimation and imagination highly probable that you can simply allow yourself to effortlessly attract what you need when you need it, no matter how it comes, why would you insist on having an intermediary symbol before you will allow yourself to have what you may be able to have far more easily in another way?
Participant: Because I have—okay—visualized this abundance, this dollar abundance, for many, many years and it hasn’t come any other way—
Bashar: Wait a minute. Wait a minute. You are contradicting yourself. You have just said you have had abundant experiences where it did not take the idea of money.
Participant: Yes, but this particular dollar—
Bashar: That’s not what we are asking you. Oh, I’m sorry. Could you repeat?
In other words, a particular scenario using your example—allowing something to be acquired from a bakery. In your terms, it can either be given to you or you can with money purchase it. Yes. Now, if it can be given to you more easily, would you still insist on having to get the money in order to purchase it anyway?
Participant: No. No. No.
Bashar: Well, then why are you being so insistent that you have to have the money to represent abundance in your life?
Participant: Because all the things that I wish to have, I know that I will need—watch yourself. You what? You know you will need the money to get them. That’s what I was about to say. Why do you know you need money to get them? Many people used to say, “I know I need money to get that bakery good.” But if somebody gives it to you, is that not an indication that you don’t always know that you need the money to get it? Yeah. If there is one exception, that can become a lifestyle.
Now, we are not meaning to imply that you go through life panhandling. Thank you. But simply recognize that many times the reason for the blockage of the monetary symbol in many individuals’ lives is their insistence upon it. They are constricting the flow themselves because they say they cannot imagine that any other way might be the path of least resistance more than having the money. If you already know that with the analogy of the bakery, it can happen that you can be given the baked goods, why not simply assume that that is the rule and not the exception rather than assume that the money is the rule and not the exception? Just because you see it that way very often in your society doesn’t mean one way or another that one way or another is the rule and not the exception.
When you decide what is the rule and what is the exception, that’s how your life becomes structured. So if you decide that you prefer allowing your abundance to come to you in whatever way, shape or form you need it to without the money always having to be the rule rather than the exception, then you will find things coming to you and you will probably not need as much money as you think you need. When you allow your abundance to be equal across the board in all the ways it could come to you, then you may find that in proportion to the way things come to you, you will need far less money. But you will always have just enough, exactly enough to bring you the things that need to come through the utilization of the symbol of money.
So let us say in your life if you can create your life to be 75% other forms of abundance and 25% money, then you’ll only have 25% of the money. If you insist on more than 25%, you’re actually fighting your own flow, your own ease of creation. Because if your life says, “But why don’t you want 75% of your abundance in this other way which is the more effortless way?” You follow me?
Participant: Mhm.
Bashar: Now these things that for now you think you know you need money to have—why do you think you know you need money to have them? Can you imagine that they could even just for a moment come to you in another way? Is there any other possibility at all other than insisting that you have to have money in order to get these things you desire? Is there any other way that they could come?
Participant: Well, in my imagination, of course, yes.
Bashar: Here’s the clue. Oh, yes. In my imagination. As everyone knows, imagination is not real. Oh yes it is. Your physical reality is absolutely and utterly nothing more than what you imagine it to be based upon what you have been told to imagine it is. Now you don’t have to buy into that anymore. Your imagination is absolutely real. And you may take me literally. I am not speaking philosophically. Imagination is representative of real reality. All that it takes is for you to decide that’s the reality I prefer, then you start acting as if it is really real. And as soon as you start acting that that’s really real—what you picture as opposed to what you have been experiencing—then what you picture is what you will begin to experience.
Participant: Okay, that’s exactly why I’m here tonight because that’s exactly what I did with these fields.
Bashar: One moment. Okay, what is also important is to get in touch with why you desire the reality you desire. Yes, to picture it and to act as if that is real is to bring it into manifestation, but not if it goes against the grain of your path of least resistance and not if it goes against the grain of what you really believe you are capable of or what you really need—because then you’d only be fighting yourself.
Participant: Mhm. I understand that.
Bashar: All right. So, the idea we are asking you is—yes, you created the pictures of the money deals and you created them to come to fruition. But if that representation in and of itself is actually a constriction of your abundance rather than representative of an expansion of your abundance, you’re going to create a stalemate as you have done. You follow me?
Participant: I follow you. I was not, however, aware that there was any constriction in it in my desiring it.
Bashar: Correct. But the result that occurs—i.e., the stalemate—makes you aware that there is a constriction. That is why you can always understand that what happens in your physical reality is always an absolute 100% reflection of what is going on within you in terms of the beliefs you are examining. Okay. So there was a constriction. So then of course that’s what manifests. And the constriction can be for negative or positive reasons.
So it’s up to you to determine the idea of why you want the scenario you have created to come to fruition. And if it is primarily because you don’t believe there’s any other way to get what you want, that may be the reason for the constriction to show you yet there are other ways. They are quicker. They are more effortless. They are easier. Why insist on what you have pictured when your reality is showing you that that may not be the easiest path? Why fight and beat your head against the wall when all you need to do is say, “Hm, it’s not happening as I pictured. There must be a reason—a positive reason for that. Therefore, I will look around and see what other ways what I want could come to me rather than insisting that this is the only way it will come.”
It is that willingness to examine all other probabilities in the face of what is happening that gives you the opportunity to use that circumstance in a positive way. You follow me?
Participant: I do follow you.
Bashar: So let us again examine the idea of why you have to have the manifestation as you have visualized it. Why must it be that way or you will not allow yourself to believe you’ll be able to get what you want?
Participant: No, I haven’t. I have not denied myself the belief that I will get what I want. It’s just that I was so wholeheartedly set on getting it this way now. Yes. And so, that’s why I don’t see why it isn’t coming to me.
Bashar: What is it you want?
Participant: I want one of these deals to close. And in other words, let me put it this way—is the deal in and of itself the goal, or is the deal a step towards something?
Participant: It’s a step.
Bashar: What is the thing?
Participant: It is a step towards money, dollars, for what? To enable me to do what I want to do further in life, which is expanding my activities in any way I wish in a relaxed way where I don’t have to think of earning money to pay my rent, earning it to eat—where it’s just there and all the survival functions of this earth are just taken care, etc. You know.
Bashar: Okay, what activity?
Participant: I haven’t decided on them in detail.
Bashar: Is that the thing? But why should I—why do I have to constrict myself into such—
That is not necessarily a constriction. Let me put it on a very simplistic level. If you do not know what the money is going to let you do, why should the money come? Okay. Well, I know some of it. I don’t know all of it. Then name something.
Participant: Okay. I want to travel all over the world. I want the world. Yes. Why?
Bashar: Because I would like to investigate more deeply different cultures and meet people that I know that I already know but I haven’t met yet this lifetime, etc.
Participant: Now you have provided us with a clue. Let me ask you a question. May I? Yes. Are you going to wait until you have the money to start acting upon whatever opportunities you could be acting upon that represent being that type of person, or are you going to act as that type of person act now?
Bashar: Well, I’m waiting for the money because then I think that that will enable me to do it in the way I want to do it.
Participant: That’s your stumbling block right there. You are waiting for the money before you will be who you are. What it takes to allow the money to pour through is to start being who you are and acting upon the opportunities that present themselves in your life now. That is what will create the momentum that will bring you the money. Until you act upon what you have available to act upon now and until you be the person you say you want to be when you have the money, then you do not create the vacuum into which the money can be pulled. You are not creating any space for the money to come in because you’re not doing anything with what you have available to you.
Participant: Yes. Okay. Well, I know I could travel already. Yes, anyone can travel. But with the money, I could do it in the style that I want to do it. The point—I’m missing it, right? Could you do it again, please?
Bashar: You are assuming that you cannot travel in the style you want to travel in without the money. That is not necessarily true. The point of the matter is—start acting like the person you want to be. Start being that person now, and you will attract whatever it is necessary to attract. You will start traveling and you will find that you will be able to start traveling in style in certain ways. But always the style will be conducive of what it is you actually are learning within the traveling.
Also recognize that you will simply attract yourself into circumstances that will probably make it more conducive for you to have the money. If you start moving now, until you start moving, you will not create the type of momentum that will bring you the money. Let me put it another way.
There is no such thing truly as an individual that is more rich than any other individual. Everyone, everyone has actually just enough to be the expanded idea. They are just enough. No one has more than they need. Now, when you start acting like a person that travels in style, you will attract a lifestyle that reflects that. Right now, you are waiting to act like that type of a person. And so the money and the lifestyle is waiting for you to take the first step.
So the idea is—look around, decide what is available for you to act upon already. If you were the person you want to be, how would you act differently than you are acting now? Act that way on whatever opportunities present themselves in the style of a person who is used to acting that way. And when you take the first step in that style, you will then be making a commitment to that lifestyle, and it will come to you. But first you must act in that style. You must have the life of that type of a person. You must be the person who has that type of a life and act that way on everything you do. Everything you do.
Because if you were that type of a person, the slightest thing in your life would be done differently than you are doing it now. You would be doing it as that type of a person does that thing. So create the picture of how you would be, and then do everything in your life no matter what it is like that type of a person would do it, and you will generate the radiation, the vibratory frequency of that type of a person, and you will have the lifestyle of that person. You understand?
Participant: I understand what you’re saying. Um, that is not a real mechanism for you. It’s real. But okay. So you go and you buy a ticket first class to go to India and you stay in a castle and you live that lifestyle of that type of a person. You act upon the opportunities that present themselves to you at whatever level they present themselves with all the style you can muster on that level. You fill that level up with all the style you have, and that makes room for another level of style. Until you do everything in the fullest style, you will not make room for more style to happen to you. Okay. Okay. I get it. I get the technique.
You see, if you are saying, “Well, this incident is beneath my style,” then you do not act upon it with full style. So, the universe says, “Well, you’re not acting like a person who lived that way. You are treating and reacting to the situations in your life in a meager way. So, here’s what you get—a meager lifestyle.” When you act to the fullest on everything as it presents itself, then you are creating the lifestyle of a rich person. Because a rich person does the smallest things with that kind of style. You follow me? Mhm. That is the attitude. If you develop it, you will develop a life that is appropriate too. Mhm. Does that make sense now?
Participant: Yes. Yes, that does make sense.
Bashar: So keep it simple. Keep it simple. So I’m still thinking—so what did I miss in—
Participant: You didn’t miss anything except the idea that you are elevating certain things above other things, and the things that are in your life are worth being there, and you are creating them to be unworthy. When you give them the work that is their due, all the work in the universe will be yours. Follow me? Mhm. So that’s what I have to look for—what are the things that I have made unworthy in my life?
Bashar: Live everything in your life in the style of a person who is rich. That does not always mean—if you will actually observe rich people—that you have to spend the most on everything you do. No, no, no. I understand. All right. It is the approach. It is the attitude. It is the finesse. It is the confidence that is what creates a person to be rich. They know they already own it. And therefore they know that what comes to them is a part of their wealth, not a part of their poverty.
Participant: Thank you, Bashar, very much.
New Business and Excitement
Participant: Shing. Hi Bashar. Hi. My very first time. I’m kind of excited.
Bashar: Me, too. Once again, I’m not kind of excited. I’m very excited.
Participant: Okay. Hi, Alra. I’m thinking of going into a new business.
Bashar: All right. Go right ahead. Have a good night.
Participant: I love children. Yay. I was a nursery school teacher for eight years. All right. And I studied cartoon voices. All right. And I thought what I would do is I’d dress up like little animals—you know, like a little bear or a little bunny or something—and then plan children’s parties and do it with a little bunny voice or a little bear voice.
Bashar: Well, you go right ahead. And it’s kind of an idea because—kind of an idea. It’s not kind of an idea. It is an idea. All right. It’s an idea. Yes. And I’m very excited about it. Yes. But I’m wondering if it will come about.
Bashar: That’s like saying, “Here I am behind the wheel of my very own car. I have turned it on and my foot is poised above the gas pedal and I’m wondering if it will go.” What do you mean? You are wondering if it will come about. You say you are excited about it. You say you know clearly what you want to do. Do it, and then it will come about, won’t it?
Participant: Okay.
Bashar: All you are missing is the trust that it will support you, which of course it will if it represents what excites you the most. That’s right. You got it. You got it. All right. I got it. It’s that simple. Trust it. It never doesn’t work. Never. Never.
Because I’m excited. Because you are excited and because you are willing to trust that when it’s something that excites you, it represents what you are capable of doing in life most effortlessly and most abundantly. Advertise that fact. Tell everyone who you are, and they will want you to come and do your bunny voice.
Participant: Okay, I’ll do it. Thank you very much. Can I ask you another question, please?
Bashar: You’ll have to ask if you can ask. All right.
Participant: Um, I’m starting a new business, too. And another new business that I kind of like a contact—okay—to sell precious jewels. All right. And I just wonder if I have the background in business knowledge to make a business out of it.
Bashar: Let me put it this way. Act upon the things that excite you the most that you know you are most capable of acting upon, and it will lure you into whatever scenario you need to gain the experience to act upon anything else that excites you. Maybe you will give a party for the child of a person who will teach you the business you need to know. Oh yeah. Oh yeah. All excitement is connected to all other excitement. Act upon the things that excite you that you are capable of acting upon, and that will lead you into the scenarios that give you the skills you need to act upon anything else that has ever excited you. Just like you said—all the little tributaries, they all meet in the ocean.
Participant: I believe that. I really do. Thank you.
Bashar: Act accordingly and you will see the results. We guarantee it 100%.
Microwave and Water Structuring
Participant: Can I ask you one other question? Okay. Uh, I’ve come several times. This is the first time I’ve ever spoken, but I’ve come several times and you said one time that microwaves were good to have in the home for cooking. Now, I said that. Well, no, the way you said it. Wait a minute. I want to make it perfectly clear. Thank you. But I do not remember ever saying microwaves are good to have in the home for cooking.
Participant: But what you did say was to heat water in a microwave would change the vibration of the water and then it was good for us to drink that water.
Bashar: What I said was certain microwave frequencies can alter it in beneficial ways. Many microwave frequencies will impart a certain structural change to the water that will be temporary, and then there will be no additional side effect once the microwaves are turned off.
Participant: I see because I was thinking about getting a microwave oven.
Bashar: Your own electromagnetic energy will structure the crystalline energy within water appropriately, far more swiftly than any of your microwave devices will. Simply imagine blue-white electromagnetic light going from any portion of your body—your hands, your head if you wish, your heart, your solar plexus—into the water, and allow yourself to know that within a very calm meditative state, you will be imparting to that water a certain crystalline structure and therefore extracting from that water the power inherent within the crystalline structure of that substance. And in drinking it, it can align and assist in your alignment and assimilation of your acceleration to higher energy.
Father’s Health and Timing
Participant: And be of assistance and allow it in your terminology to create all the understanding that is necessary for smoothness of transition. Yes, he’s been in and out of the hospital several times over the last few years for various operations. And it occurred to me that he might now be preparing particularly my mom for his absence. Um, what else can you tell me about that? Do you sense this is—
Bashar: We can gaze upon them, allow the state vibrational frequency that they put you in to take you where you need to go and so that you can understand the relationship between the three of you. Thank you. This is what we can assist you with at this time. More information can come from other individuals, but right now it is not our place to do so.
Participant: Okay, I understand. Um, I’m planning to go on a trip shortly after the 1st of June and be gone for a couple of weeks. If I felt that he was going to be leaving while I was gone, I would not go. I would stay to be with my mother.
Bashar: We cannot tell you what to do, but it is our suggestion that you stay around. Okay? Because there may be many processes that will allow you to know when the timing feels correct for you to go on your way.
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