Creative Relationship

Before this channeling started, I had a very strong technique that I used, and I did it automatically. I started doing tarot readings for myself. I found some tarot cards in a drawer in my desk where I was working, and no one around me knew who they belonged to or who had put them there. So I read the instructions and learned what they were and how to use them. Then I started using them every day. But I didn’t really do anything special while actually using them. It was just that when a client came in for work, they saw them and asked me if I could do something for them.

I started doing them because, unlike before when I had just been playing around, I had a reason to do it for them, and I felt like I was concentrating a lot more than usual. I didn’t particularly want to write an instruction manual, I just looked at the cards as I felt. And so I told the other person about it, and I kept looking down like this, and I talked, and then for the first time, I looked up and looked at him, and he was like this, with his mouth wide open. I realized that I had hit the nail on the head, and so I thought, wow, I can do amazing things, and I’ve continued to do that. I’ve done that with several people for a few years, and just before I started channeling, I met someone who was teaching all sorts of psychic things on different levels, and through his teachings, I learned to balance the logical part of myself with the emotional part.

I did all that, and after learning all that from him, I just gave it to the channeler. When you make that kind of agreement beforehand, you naturally learn what you need to do it, and it happens automatically, and you trust the information that comes out of that. And I want you to remember that you’re doing this by choice, and you’re doing it to serve.

And first of all, the channeler. To experience passing through means to get in touch with the various aspects of your nature that lie within you. You are getting in touch with the various aspects of yourself that you have separated in this society. So many things will come to you. You have to trust and accept them. Sometimes it can be a very emotional experience. It doesn’t have to be an emotional experience, but it often comes out that way.

PART TWO: THE CHANNELING PROCESS

Another thing I want to say is not to be too quick to label the information that is coming through you. If what is coming through you is positive, there is no need to be so quick. By filtering out this being, you start to attach labels to it, and you end up filtering it out a lot. Trust your senses and move forward, but at the same time, try not to ignore your physical being on this plane. Any channeling does not come at the expense of one’s personal life, and if the channeler is satisfied, the channeling will be satisfactory.

There is something very interesting happening when I enter. My consciousness is diffused, and it is more like a dream when I am sleeping. It’s more like a hum, and you enter into a sort of luster, and then you go beyond a certain level, but that point is quite clear. And after talking to several channels, it seems that they do go beyond that state, though not all of it. Channeling is a process of merging with other things, a process of integration, so at some point you suddenly come into contact with various aspects of yourself, and at that time not only the positive aspects but also the negative aspects that you possess pass through.

When a channeler passes through this, it’s the thing that people who are about to start channeling are most afraid of at first. It takes a few seconds to get through this, but once you get through it, something interesting happens. You become very sensitive to your environment and start to feel all sorts of things. You just feel connected to everything. When it’s positive, you feel very connected and it feels good, but when you get past the negative aspects, even the smallest sound or thing can be irritating. It feels like all the negative emotions that you normally have when you react to what other people are doing come along with it. It’s a very critical part of you. Those feelings come up inside of you, and you start to feel them. It’s as if all of your negativity is condensed into these three seconds, and you’re attaching yourself to it for three seconds. It’s an experience that’s very interesting, and when you go through that, it feels like you have to look at everything you have again.

And being in a trance is a very interesting sensation, and I think it depends on the energy and the things you understand, and you experience sensations that you don’t normally feel. I get to feel how they feel, how they understand, like, not have. While I’m in a trance state, I can feel what it’s like to have absolutely no doubts. And gradually, that feeling starts to come into me, and my real life is gradually becoming like that too.

PART THREE: ENERGY, CHANGE & PROPHECY

As you know, this time is something you create for yourself, but how about a deadline for today? Before I begin, I want you to remember a few things. As we’re having this exchange today, I think a lot of new energy will be felt by some of you here. You’ll see new things, feel new things, new perceptions, new realizations, and if you allow it, it will naturally arise in the space that’s most comfortable for you.

When you start to feel any kind of energy, remember that you have the power to handle it. I want you to remember that the universe will never give you anything you can’t handle. Never, never, never. So when you feel like there’s an energy coming at you that’s too strong, you’re using your own definition. The universe’s definition is that it’s not coming at you, it’s being thrown at you.

So what we’re going to do is let that energy flow through your body as you breathe. Relax, and decide to see what you’re experiencing in a positive light. Breathe. It’s perfectly fine to feel these emotions and changes within yourself. Just remember, you are choosing to feel these energies now as a product of your love and service to all. So, don’t be afraid, just feel them with gratitude to the universe. And be grateful that you are choosing to learn who you are and what kind of being you are through these experiences.

Each and every one of us is a very unique being with a unique structure. Your personality doesn’t fundamentally represent who you are. It’s what you are trying to be in that moment, and the strongest thing you have, that defines you. So, when you change the thoughts and ideas you have within yourself, you will completely change as a person. You will literally change.

So, when you come in here today and when you leave today, you will be a completely different person. Think people, no matter what you look like in the mirror, you will be a completely different person. This appearance is an illusion. When you begin to change enough within yourself, you will become a completely different person. When you begin to change fully within yourself, you will change. For some, this happens naturally and automatically over a period of time.

Your society is still very attached to time and space, so it may take time for change to actually occur at the physical level. The reason you keep looking at your face or other external appearances the same week after week is because you want to maintain continuity within yourself. When you start to focus more on your internal perceptions rather than on the outside, you will no longer be bothered by the changes on the outside from week to week. And no matter how dramatically you change on the outside from week to week, you will always be able to maintain your signature vibration, your unique frequency. No matter how much you change in your personality, your unique frequency expresses your soul. At the same time, even if your outside doesn’t change at all, it is very possible that you are changing inside and your personality is changing.

When you desire change and act on how you have changed, your life will actually change.

Thank you for having the conviction to change yourself in such a beautiful way.

PART FOUR: SOCIAL CHANGE & PROPHECY DISCUSSION

Question: “On March 1, there were over 300 to 500 cases in Japan. The 1989-90 period was two years ago. If you want to do something for society when there is such a big social upheaval or change, what kind of action should you take?”

Bashar: Of all change takes place or vast big changes occur for people, those people who want to serve the other, what do they do? The first thing I want you to understand is that all change can be seen as both positive and negative. When you think that change has to happen in a destructive way, you have to go through that process. If you do that, you’ll gradually flow in that direction. You can then see these changes in a positive light, as if they’re breaking down what was created before and creating something new. This will then work in a positive direction.

Even if there are big changes, how you personally experience them is a different matter. Remember, the vibrations you carry are what you experience. And when you have those kinds of vibrations, they bring fear. But if you have love, service, and joy, those kinds of vibrations, they will carry you in that direction during times of change.

Some isolated parts of the Earth may experience these changes very negatively, emotionally and in other ways. Some parts may still have to pass through in what you might call a catastrophic disaster. But even within those parts, even within those areas, if individuals see the positive, they won’t be affected in that negative way.

So, as these great changes are coming, what we want to do is to see them in a positive light. As we sense your energy and watch, this is what will happen between 1990 and 1994. A very large part of consciousness will begin to become aware of social unity. There will be a new awareness of expressing one’s individuality very publicly.

At the same time, as there are extraterrestrial planets and so on, many governments on your Earth are aware of our existence and have various pieces of information. This information that the people of 1990 to 1994 have will now be released into the public sphere and recognized in the public sphere. As a result, this society will write a great deal about the universe. But we don’t want you to focus on us when we say this; we want you to focus on yourself.

Many people are being asked to take responsibility for their own lives and to tell others what to do. Instead of letting everyone else run their lives, you’re now being asked to take responsibility for your own actions. That doesn’t mean you have to listen to everyone. Hey, it doesn’t mean you have to become ours. But here’s how change can happen. Governments that have felt like they’ve been denied control can now. With all this going on, change can come much easier if we don’t lose our power, but if we take it back.

When we talk about political, economic, and social change, remember that you’re part of it. Taking responsibility means taking responsibility for your actions and doing something for your society.

Your time, from 1990 to 2011, saw a social upsurge. It’s a global story. And many global cultures intermingle. There may be a lot of violence in many places, but in the end, it will all balance out. Your unconditional love. Gradually, things will become smoother.

Then, in 1997, there will be another big change. By 2013, this Earth will be one world.

All of what I have just said can be said by sensing your energy now. So, I would like to talk a little about prophecy here. From our perspective, there is no such thing as a prophecy about the future. When you are feeling the energy like now, you can get a sense of it. No one can sense the future. You can sense the energy of the present and sense future possibilities. So, when you sense something like that, you can say that if the energy state does not change, this will actually happen. There is a completion to that energy. If it continues to be completed, it will go in this direction. You can sense that. But that does not mean that it cannot be changed.

At the same time, even if something like that occurs, it does not mean that you have to experience it in a certain way. If many people continue with this energy, it will turn out like this. If you can sense that something is going to happen, you can change that energy. So when prophecies become public and are made known to everyone, everyone can change it, and so the prophecy itself often loses its meaning.

Please understand this well. Prophecies are all reading the energy of the present. So what I’ve just said is the energy that we feel within you right now, and I’ve only spoken of the energy that I felt would generally change. If everyone here wants to change that, you can choose your own energy. Will it be positive or negative? I can say it this way: if everyone here decides to wake up now, there will be no need for someone from outside to shake them awake later.

Those of you who are born here now have been born into a very exciting time in this era of change. You have been given the opportunity to be born at such a fun time, so make the most of yourself, as much as you can, and enjoy it. You can do this by doing what excites you the most.

PART FIVE: RELATIONSHIPS WITH SELF & INNER BALANCE

let’s talk about the second stage of relationships. First, your relationship with yourself. We can talk about imaginative relationships, but if you’re not imaginative with yourself first, how can you be imaginative with anyone? Are you ready to be bold and do all sorts of things? Each and every one of you.

Thank you very much. So, it looks like we’re going to have some fun today. So, please relax and get into a comfortable position. Close your eyes if you want to. And take three breaths. Please breathe as you relax and do the following.

Imagine your body relaxing. See this red, red, and gold light going through your body. Imagine each muscle releasing whatever it’s holding you back and becoming softer. Start with your feet and slowly let that relaxation rise up your legs. Gently speak to each muscle in your body. Allow it to rise up your thighs, into your stomach, and then down your arms and fingertips. Relax your shoulders. Feel the organs in your stomach relax. Watch your heart relax and gently send a stream of energy through your body. Feel your lungs continue to relax. Exhale, inhale, and exhale.

Energy is rising up your throat. Relax your body, and the muscles and bones there relax and rise. Feel your jaw muscles relax. Feel it. Feel the warmth. Feel it. Feel your nose and the cavity behind your nose. Behind your eyes. Feel them relaxing. Through your skull. Relax all the way to the top of your head and feel a brilliant red-golden light shining from your aura throughout your body. Then see an emerald-green light shining from your heart. Feel this green light radiating through and expanding into every cell in your body. Feel your consciousness merging with your body as you relax.

Feel yourself connected and vibrating gently with nature. Feel your sensitivity and your intuition. See your worries and anxieties melt away into the green light. Now from within, see the blue light at your third eye. Feel an immense joy as your body and mind relax. Feel the calm, cool air awakening your body. Feel yourself breathing as a soul. No matter what your mind tells you, you are free to do whatever it says. Feel that your soul, consciousness and body are one and now you have just prayed and are in the right state for that prayer to reach out to the other side. At the same time, you are in the right state to receive the infinite love that you deserve.

See the white light filled with oracle bones shining within you. Feel this light of infinite absolute perfection within you. You are now in an ocean of infinite love. Take three big breaths and enjoy it. Allow yourself to feel like you are floating in a state of relaxation. You are in a state of complete love and complete acceptance, accepting yourself and all others.

PART SIX: MEETING YOUR INNER OPPOSITE

Now imagine the following: If you are a woman, the male side of you is right in front of you, about one meter away. If you are a man, the female half of you is right in front of you. It is not a stranger, it is the gender different from your own gender within you and in your physical body. If you are a man, look at that part right in front of you. Whatever you think you are. It’s okay. What would you be like if you were born in reverse?

So, feel everything you’ve learned so far in this exercise. Feel all the love. Bring it all to your heart. Bring it to your water hole. And send it with a brilliant, explosive light to your other self in front of you. Let that light express the self in front of you. Let that light wash over your other self. Look into the eyes of that other self. And now, feel your body coming back to you. And move closer to that person. Move closer until you’re about 10 cm away. Move closer too. And allow your other self to move closer to you.

Then embrace your other self. It’s okay if a friendly energy comes out. It’s okay if a sexy energy comes out. It’s okay if an emotional energy comes out. Allow yourself to feel it all. As you embrace it, the energy inside you will be transmitted to the other person. And the other person’s energy will be transmitted to you. The bodies will not be exchanged, but the energy will be transmitted. Only the two will be swapped.

Forgive all the misunderstandings you have had up until now. Be happy to accept all the differences you have seen up until now. Feel the release and the feeling of having found your opposite side. Look at it now with joy.

And now your energy is in that other person. If you were the opposite, how would you feel? What would your body feel like? If you were born the other way, understand that opposite position, that opposite perspective. Accept it as it is, and love it. Don’t try to change it to how you think it should be, just love it as it is. Recognize the imagination that it has, and be happy with it.

Then, allow that energy to return to your original self. Even when the energy returns, you have left something inside the other person, and they have left something inside you. Remember that.

See the light that shines so brightly within you rising upwards. The other person’s light and your own light are rising upwards, and the two lights become one. Watch it blend with the rest of you. Watch your male and female parts spin around in that one light. It’s like watching an eternal ballet. Feel the infinity within you supporting and sending love to all of the parts of you. Enjoy the sensation of it. Take three breaths.

As you do this, open your eyes and come back to reality. Remember that you are blending more with yourself. You are more one with yourself. You are in love, in love with life, and feeling love for life, and loving life more. And what you give, life gives back as love. You are reborn as a whole new you, whole new and fresh.

Now let yourself look at nature all around you. Nature shining before your eyes. It is all part of the infinite imagination, as infinity expresses itself through you.

Relax and enjoy. Infinite beauty and infinite growth. New things are always being born and emerging. Enjoy imaginative relationships with that infinite wholeness. The expression of the infinite imagination through you. Enjoy, relax, and for 23 minutes, just simply feel that new life, that newness, from for that mind. Know that from this moment on, you are connected to the infinite imagination, connected through your body, through your mind, and through your consciousness. Not that you haven’t been for all of us before, but thank you for reminding us of that connection again.

So, please stand up, stretch a little, and enjoy the feeling of your new body, and give yourself a hug, put your arms around yourself, you are worth enjoying. You are worth enjoying. We are watching you very much, and if you’ve enjoyed yourself enough, please sit down. If you haven’t, please give yourself a hug. And once everyone is seated, we’ll move on.

PART SEVEN: RELEASE, LAUGHTER & PLAY

We’re about to move on to the next stage of that imaginative relationship. But first, the next time you do this, or if something comes up, I recommend you do the following. I asked you to physically express who you are, to do it with your body. Open your mouth, tilt your head back, and look. Take a deep breath, and then exhale in the following way. You have become what you have become, and you have decided to take responsibility for it. This sigh is a sigh to let go of all the tiring ways that haven’t worked for you until now, and with that, you have to acknowledge the many ways you have resisted your natural self. You can do as many fun things as you want, but one time is enough. Your laughter will brighten everything.

In English, this is called enlightenment, which means to brighten up. Brightening up is very helpful. What happens when you laugh is that it releases and brings you back to the center. Tears are a way of releasing and bringing you back to the center, but laughter is a way of letting go of the negative things that you have done. And the sigh is the center in the middle. Allow yourself to be a more balanced individual.

So let’s add some ideas, some new thoughts. Remember, like a child, you have the freedom to play just as a child plays. It’s very important to know how to play when creating imaginative relationships. And at the same time, balance the energy of your adult self and your child self.

In the second half, we’ll talk about how to attract relationships to yourself and how to connect with the person you are now, with the person you have. But before we do that, let’s awaken the child within you, so that you can move with that child. Children are full of love. Children have faith in the positive. Children know that the universe is beautiful and full of wonder. In your society, children often have to forget the things I just said. Children are taught many times in order to forget the things I just said. And in this society, after learning these things, we believe that this is human nature. I think it’s normal to walk around blindfolded, to have tunnel vision. We argue with others, we try so hard to protect what we have, and humans don’t remember their true, original quality past the age of three. So let’s go back to that child and merge that child with the adult you are now.

PART EIGHT: THE INNER CHILD

Now, close your eyes once more. Take three loving breaths. Now, just listen to the beat of your heart. Mmhmm, Mmhmm, boom, boom, boom. No reason? No reason. It’s okay to laugh, because children laugh a lot. But just be aware of that sound. It’s an imaginary sound, a sound of imagination, that’s what makes you laugh. Listening to your heart is listening to your imagination, your imagination. Listening to the magic of love and the music of love. This is where all reality is actually created, and that magic comes back to you again.

Remember, the world is actually full of magic. You’ve already learned that miracles don’t happen often, but at first, everything around you was full of miracles. But a miracle is when something happens that doesn’t have a specific meaning, or when something happens that you can’t explain. But to a child, that’s inexplicable. Children understand that miracles are natural things that happen naturally, and they happen in an instant. You might think that miracles defy the laws of the universe, but it’s the exact opposite. Miracles are what happen when nature is allowed to function in its most natural way. They happen in an instant. You are all miraculous beings, and the child within you knows that.

Knowing that you are miraculous doesn’t mean you have to be egoic. Knowing that doesn’t make you egoic. You can use that miracle within yourself, when balanced with gratitude, in very imaginative ways. Being humble doesn’t mean doing nothing. When you give back to others, you can give in ways that are joyful and fulfilling for you. Children love to give back to others. They love to receive and they love to give. One give, any give. Children know that the best way to give is to allow others to give to you.

So use your imagination and see something like this: a green hilltop, and before you, the countryside stretches out into the distance. Feel the grass beneath your feet. And next to you, holding your hand, is yours—if you’re a boy, that’s a girl, or if you’re a girl, that’s a boy. That’s you, too. The person holding your hand now is you.

Right now, you’re free from all expectations. This relationship is very free and liberating. You two are enjoying this countryside in the most natural way, without any demands or expectations from the other. You stand there, holding hands, and you can hear that young heart beating. You wake up. This life is full of new discoveries, and you’re excited about them.

The sun shines on you and the rain is kind to you. The sun shines on everyone and the rain falls on everyone, but that doesn’t mean you’re less important than others. Everyone is equal to you; they’re just playmates. Your heart shines like the sun again. For all that you’ve received from nature, you shine like the sun from within and give back.

Now you’re fresh and new, and you don’t have to think about it; you can act quickly, empathize, and laugh your way through life. Now watch yourself run down that hill to play in the fields. You’ll see yourself gathering in the middle of a group of children. So dance, sing, and play there.

Merge that energy with who you are now and become one. The wild is within you. It is never far from you.

Now take three deep breaths. See the beauty of the day. Feel it. When you’re done, open your eyes and come back to this reality. But you haven’t left anything behind. At the same time, remember that you are a different person now than you were a moment ago.

PART NINE: ATTRACTION & RELATIONSHIPS

You are now ready to create and imagine imaginative relationships. This doesn’t mean your relationships weren’t imaginative, but it means you can be positively imaginative from now on. If you’ve been positively imaginative up until now, you can be even more so. If you’re fully imaginative and have fulfilling, joyful relationships, just play today. But there’s always more to learn. And that means we can all keep playing forever. We don’t know about you, but for us, that statement makes us very happy.

So we’re going to take a short break for about 15 minutes, and enjoy that.

In the second half, we’re going to talk about attraction and how to engage with people through imaginative relationships.

So let’s continue. You’re all kids now, so imaginative relationships are child’s play. So let’s talk about attraction. When you’re attracted to relationships, when you attract relationships to yourself, when you find yourself attracting different situations, let’s talk about some basic things about that.

So, I want you to remember again that your vibrations create your reality. You’ve probably been taught in this society that you’re not perfect, that you’re half human, that you’re half perfect. So a lot of people walk around outside and they send out vibrations that they’re not perfect, and they look to other people who are perfect, forgetting that they are really whole beings. And as we did in the first exercise, no matter who you are, you have both male and female energy within you. When you balance those two, you can have that vibration as your true, complete self.

When you walk around thinking you’re imperfect, you tend to attract people who share that same belief. They’ll appear before you, drawn to you, and let you know that you, too, believe yourself to be imperfect. A lot of people in this world see themselves as victims. They carry everything other people have on their shoulders, and they move from relationship to relationship. And they start to believe there must be something wrong with them. And what happens in these relationships is that they reflect that they’re bad people, that they’re somehow flawed.

Relationships reflect those parts of themselves that they believe aren’t perfect, and you can actually change them. So when negative situations arise in your life, it’s not like I’m saying, “You’re stuck in this place.” I’m saying, “You’re a rotten person, you can’t do anything about it.” I’m not saying that you’re a bad person. It’s just a mirror that reflects what you think of yourself right now, and it’s there to give you an opportunity to change if you don’t like it and want to.

By learning various things in society and believing that you are what you think you are now, you do the following: By meeting many people other than yourself and the person you think you are now, you can finally find who you are. By excluding others, you allow yourself to finally find yourself.

You look back at your relationships and think, “That wasn’t me, that wasn’t me, so this must be me.” If you really love it, and that’s what you really want, you can do that for the rest of your life, and you can continue doing it in your next reincarnation and the one after that. Instead, you can see what you want to be like here and now.

When you create various relationships because you want to see parts of yourself that you’re not, what you’re doing is that you’ve forgotten your true self, or you’re afraid to face your true self. Your natural self is a balanced self.

When you’re not being your balanced self, the universe creates things to let you know. When you don’t see yourself as perfect, when you look outside, you don’t bring yourself fulfilling, satisfying relationships, or relationships that are very difficult. Being a fulfilling, fulfilling self attracts relationships that reflect that.

Even when you’re doing something that really excites you, you attract people who still have a lot to learn. You don’t know, what is this person trying to show you when you’re so excited? But sometimes you agree to help others find that excitement. So there are times when you attract that person and show them what they can aspire to be, so they can shine in their life. Or there are times when you attract others and they show you what they can shine in your life, the person they want to be.

When such relationships come, if you look at them negatively, you might think, “You’re not worthy of me,” or “I won’t give to you,” or something like that. But you only attract vibrations similar to your own, so you agree. And then you have to remember that in that moment, you’re attracting the best person for you. That doesn’t mean it’s just one specific person. Sometimes you can have relationships with more than one person on the same level.

In our world, all relationships are mutually inclusive. They work to enlighten everyone, not to exclude others. The next point is very important. All relationships are enlightening when you face them with unity. Even if you have multiple relationships, if you hold secrets and don’t love honestly, it becomes an external relationship. You have to open your heart and when you communicate openly and honestly, all relationships move in a direction that leads to more awareness. And when you approach relationships with an open heart and honesty, you can understand why things are the way they are in various relationships. Sometimes, when you’re in two relationships and you think about it, you might think that people aren’t really related after all.

But when you have an emotional connection, when you feel something emotional, you often feel like you’ve known someone for a long time, even in a past life, and you’ve done many things together. And when you become a different tribe, you often try to do something different from before. You can really only have one person in your life, and that’s possible.