Birthing Experience

All of it was chosen by both of you to experience challenges in a way that allows you to drop your insistence and your assumption about how you think things need to happen.

So you gave yourself an opportunity to learn a valuable lesson about not being so insistent on the idea of what you typically call a “spiritual way” of doing things, so that you can validate all pathways as being equally spiritual if they are capable of providing the lessons you need to learn for your soul’s growth in this life.

Your child helped you understand this by taking you through a completely unexpected series of experiences on the path of birthing something that includes not only the birthing of your child but the birthing of a new you that will relax your insistence on the way you think things need to go in order to accomplish what you need in this life.

It doesn’t mean you have to suffer or have to experience pain to do so. But it was a lesson that made you face the idea that sometimes you may be invalidating pathways that actually would be what you actually need for your soul’s growth, rather than simply assuming that you can do things in what your society more classically might say is a more spiritual way, as if you should be beyond the idea of experiencing physical reality, which is equally valid to any spiritual experience whatsoever.

So it’s about relaxing the idea of separating the validation and the validity of spiritual experiences from spirit, and allowing yourself to accept that it is all a spiritual experience and is valid for your soul’s growth. And then you may experience the effortlessness of a new path that is more representative of your true self without invalidating the other paths you think you should be able to be beyond.

Everyone chooses the timing of their death. It’s not about being saved to be alive.

You are invalidating the choice of that spirit to leave when he did. So don’t invalidate those choices just because you miss that person or because you are going through grief or pain.

Do not invalidate their choice. They’re doing it for a reason, and you can benefit from that reason if you remain connected to their spirit. The reason that the camera didn’t record anything is because it wasn’t supposed to. The idea is it was a symbol that he chose his life to be over at that point.

There was nothing more to record, nothing more to do that you could have done. It’s not about looking to God, Goddess, or a larger intelligence to do something about it, because that intelligence is not going to contradict what the individual soul has chosen for the timing of its life experience and when it is done with what it came to do. So you have to start seeing all these things as the absolute valid choice that the spirit and soul made.

You’re taking away its choice to have free will to determine what is correct for it by assuming that something went wrong. So understand that you both chose this.

You both did it by agreement. It is for you now to stretch yourself into spirit, to open yourself up that you still have a connection to him.

That will stretch you to expand your consciousness and expand yourself to include the idea of the spirit realm in your physical life by knowing that he’s still part of your family. You are not alone. He is there for you when you need him. But the idea is you can’t invalidate his choices any more than you would want him to invalidate yours.

Home is where the heart is. Home is wherever you are. Home is where you feel at home.

So home, practically speaking, physically speaking, is the entire Earth for humanity. That is your home. But real home is spirit. That’s your home. That’s where you are right now. That’s where you never leave.

So the spirit realm is your natural state, and your natural state is your true home.

There are many different causes of someone being without a physical home on your planet.

You almost have to take it on a case-by-case basis because each individual has their own reason for not having what they would perceive to be a functional shelter.

Not everyone needs a physical shelter if the environment itself is conducive to them thriving without an actual physical shelter. But in general, you will find that a lot of it has to do with fear of control, a lot of lack of self-worth, a lot of different issues.

There are some generalities, but you still have to go from person to person to find out what issue they are actually basing their experience of homelessness on, because it can be many different things that have to do with belief systems about their relationship to humanity, belief systems about the relationship to connection and connectivity, belief systems about whether they are being controlled by living in a structured environment.

All sorts of belief systems. You would have to ask each person individually what they are basing their situation on.

All beings exist at the same time? What you’re calling reincarnation is an effect that you perceive from physical space-time reality and is not actually a description of the mechanism.

No one has ever been anyone else. No one will ever be anyone else other than who they are right now because everyone exists at the same time. So when you talk about the idea of incarnations, you’re talking about the idea of beings making an energetic and informational connection to other beings that coexist in parallel timelines at exactly the same overall time that you exist. So no one has ever been anyone else.

Many beings in our world may connect energetically to a lot of beings in your world and other worlds as well that you know historically. But we are just clarifying: no one has ever actually physically been a historical being in your reality.

Well, you do it all the time when you are out of body, when you are dreaming. In the waking state, that is something that some people may be doing a little bit more consciously. To some degree, it has to do with being malleable and flexible with regard to your definitions of space and time.

This is one of the reasons why we give you the formula. As you raise your frequency by acting on your passion — not abandoning logic or anything like that or analytical thinking of course — but as you raise your frequency, you become capable of seeing through the projection of consciousness that physical reality is and can start to see the underlying structure that you have created in your consciousness that represents your chosen experiences of physical reality. And that is the template.

You can manipulate it to a certain degree in terms of those experiences, but not to any great degree that will remove you from the path you have chosen to experience in this life in general.

This can involve all sorts of different levels of emotional complexity. If you understand the process, if you understand that you are always confident about something — which clearly you understand that concept — but you are still choosing to place your confidence in the idea that you lack confidence.

Then going back to the motivational mechanism that exists in all of you, there must be a reason for doing that that you think benefits you. So you have to explore why you would think being confident about having no confidence benefits you, or why having confidence in the fact or the idea or the belief that you would have to be nervous or stumbling or not deliver the information properly — any of these ideas in some way shape or form benefits you.

Sometimes it can be that then you can say as an excuse, “Well, I didn’t really perform well because I simply didn’t have the ability to perform well.”

That’s just an example. But it gives you a reason for doing something that you don’t prefer to do. So you have to let go of needing reasons for things that might happen and be okay with whatever happens. You can in a sense laugh it off. It doesn’t really ultimately matter whether you stumble in delivering information to people or not. It doesn’t really ultimately matter. The crowd that is listening to you is encouraging you. They want you to succeed.

You have to understand that they’re there for you. They’re there for themselves to be there for you to give them what they need. So they’re supporting you. They’re with you. And it doesn’t matter if you’re absolutely perfect or not when you deliver that information in whatever style you deliver it in.

No matter what that format is, the idea is to understand that you can’t be your idea of perfect all the time, because perfection is not a goal.

Perfection is a process. You are always perfect as you are at the moment, and you will always improve and you will always be better. And if you’re okay with the process of constantly becoming more, constantly becoming better, constantly improving, then it won’t matter what happens at the moment because we know that your intent and your earnestness are there. You are attempting to be of service to them. And it is from that heart space that you’re coming.

Therefore, people will look aside from any little gaffes, any little stumbles. They will see you as simply human. They will relate to you more readily that way. You will be matching what they themselves feel within themselves because you’re the one there delivering. You’re the one on stage being confident enough to be there to reflect to them a lot of what they’re going through in their emotional complexity, saying, “Oh, I’m glad he’s over there doing that because I could never do that. So I appreciate that he is doing that for me and being of service to me because I could never do that.”

You doing it can serve as a living example of the fact that they could learn to do that too. But they’re in deep appreciation that you’re the one on the stage doing it, so they don’t have to feel nervous being up there doing it because they know that you’re a reflection of what they could be doing in their own life in their own way that would be reflective and representative of them being their true selves as well. So they only have deep appreciation for you.

So in a sense, it doesn’t really matter whether you stumble through it or not. You are always capable of saying to them, “You know, I am just having this moment. I am glad that you are all here joining me in this moment. I am simply fumbling through this, but I appreciate that you are supporting me in the doing of this. Let’s all do this together and move on,” and you will find that you will improve. So it’s about not being so focused on the idea of being perfect and just delivering from your heart and letting them know that that’s what you’re doing, no matter how it comes out.